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anonymous
writes:I'm in love with this guy that I know and I have been for about 4 years now. There's a big age difference between us but I don't care he's so nice looking and amazing. I know nothing will ever happen because he's got a girlfriend and there madly in love and plus he doesn't like me in that sort of way. I think he knows I like him, he might of forgoten by now. Basically I need some ideas on what to do because I feel heartbroken nearly every day. What should I do to stop feeling crushed by the fact the love of my life will never be mines??
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2009): i'm the person that wrote the problem and the thing is am 14 and he's 21. I thought it said you had to be over 20 to leave a message, sorry
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reader, applegirl  +, writes (22 March 2009):
 I dont think it's appropriate to have a crush on someone over 20 unless the other gave you some signs. I mean, when you are young you can have crush and fell for someone who you see or a boyband member but when you're in your 30's how do you fall for someone with not even kissing him ever? I mean I can get excited about someone for a bit but as soon as I see that he is not interested in that way I move on! Don't waste your time, find someone who gives you attention and wants to kiss you and be with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2009): 4 years!wow!that's a very long time,honey,i feel for you!the only thing that you can do is find the strength within yourself to get over him,which you clearly haven't managed to do yet.4 years of your life is a very long time sadly wasted over someone you know you'll never have a chance to be with.why should this guy be the love of your life?you're still young,you have your whole life ahead of you!open up your heart and let someone else be the love of your life!someone who will love you back and take care of you and make you happy,instead of miserable and heartbroken.
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