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writes:Well. Its been sometime since i had sex. Counting now i thinks its 4 years. And i want to have sex with my boyfriend but I'm afraid it would hurt and besides the fact im much bigger than i was before meaning weight size what should i do to relax and have sexual intercourse with my boyfriend? Reply to this Question |
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reader, Fatherly Advice + ♥, writes (31 July 2009):
 I think the problem the original poster has is more body shyness than anything else.
You are in a relationship with a great new guy and he loves you for who you are now. Not for who you used to be. Before you get undressed together, ask him what his favorite part of you is. Then show him some more of it. Ask him how he likes it. Then ask what else he likes, and so on. It sounds like fishing for complements, and it is because complements are what you need. He just needs some help giving you what you need.
He is already crazy about you. Unless he is a complete bone head he will only say great things about you. Also he is going to love the show.
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reader, icelordess + ♥, writes (31 July 2009):
 If you use lubrication, and your boyfriend is gentle, I really see no reason why it would hurt. I hope you are comfortable enough with him to explain your worries. Don't assume he'll know ok? Best thing you can do it try to relax, and don't worry about everything little thing. Its kind of like riding a bike..once you've done it..it all comes back. Try not to worry, just enjoy.
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reader, Uncle Phil  + ♥, writes (31 July 2009):
 Well, it won't have healed up in that time, that's for sure. You might have to shift a few cobwebs after 4 years but other than that it's the same game as previously.
So - play with his willy a bit, show him where to put it and waheeyyy! Bob's your uncle! Humpety pumpety.
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