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female
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36-40,
*iley
writes:I am seeing a guy since 1 month. Though we were not committed to each other...I mean I was ready to get committed, but he was little bit confused. However he told me on our 1st date that he liked me and also asked me to have our 2nd date.He kissed me on my 2nd date and after that when I asked him to marry me he confusingly said that there are lot of differences between us and also may be his family wouldnot accept me. He said sorry to me what he did on our 2nd date. I agreed with him and stopped calling him. After few days he sent me a social awareness kind of message. I was very confused and forward that same message to him after 30min. He didnot ask me anything. Then after two or three days I sent him two text messages. One was related to social awareness and another was related to his job. But he did not give me any reply. I could not understand whats going on in his mind. Why did he send me message 1st if he is not interested in me? What should I do next to contact him (to bring him on track)? Is he interested in me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2010): why would you want to raise the issue of marriage after two kisses?
This is unheard of and especially silly.
And at your age i can't even suggest that in a few years you will develop some more maturity. You are old enough to know better.
Though i cannot know why you are so lacking in social awareness, i think you freaked him out, and now he wants
nothing to do with you.
I suggest you read a lot of the articles on this site and a lot of the answers from the top 25 agony aunts on this site to discover what is, and what is NOT the way to go about meeting and connecting with guys.
Be more patient, much less eager, and take things at a slower pace. Love is better when it has time to grow slowly, not after 2 kisses.
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