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writes:Hey, so I have a question about hooking up vs. real interest. I slept with this girl on Halloween and she initiated the whole thing. We were both pretty drunk at the time but she seemed interested before we hooked up that night. Afterwads she didnt even spend the night however. She also stated that "we are in different places in our lives (she is a senior planning on going to med school while I am a sophomore). I played it cool and didnt contact her until a few days into the following week. I asked her to something pretty standard; basically a movie date. And tonight I invited her over to my fraternity to hang out. And I told her to bring her friends as well as a security blanket of sorts. She didn't respond. Am I being too forward and she's turned off by that? Perhaps she's not not interested because of the age gap? I don't know what to do. :/
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (6 November 2010):
 I'll tell it to you like I tell all the girls and women on here..
Alcohol+frat boy+horny college girl= a one night stand. A hook up is a hook up she even specified that in her drunken state..plus she didn't stick around to bask in the aftermath of cuddling. All she wanted was sex, not a relationship. Sorry to say but she turned the tables around and used you.
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reader, xanthic +, writes (6 November 2010):
 You've tried to contact her twice and have gotten no response back, that's a pretty clear indication that she's just not interested in you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010): This post is actually quite rare it's usually the girl writing this kind of thing. Yes, sleeping with a drunk girl probably wasn't the best idea in the world but, in my opinion, you've been doing the right thing after it happened. You didn't just ignore her, you asked her on a date and made a bit of an effort. Too bad because it looks like she either regrets what happened and doesn't want anything more to do with you or she used you for sex either way i wouldn't bother with this girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010): First off, you slept with a drunk woman so you deserve to get slapped in the face. Thats all it was was sex. She prob feels used because of that wonderful first impression u gave her. Ha! Its sad you have to drink to be with a woman. I hope she gives you the cold shoulder and you learn a valuable lesson. But chances are, young boys like you falter over and over again so better have mommy and daddy hold ur hand on this one. She's not interested cause you slept with her but hey blame it on the alcohol...thats a perfect excuse for everything right?
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