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female
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13-15,
anonymous
writes:*Im really sorry this is long please read it*oh my god someone has got to help me. i think my teacher is a pervert. i know this sounds really weird and paranoid but i dont know what to do. when my sister was 13 she was raped multipul times by our GP and has become extremely mentally ill becasue of that. ever since then i have been extremely sensitive about how men talk to me and over react in many cases. this is why i am not sure whether or not it is really happening or whether its all in my head.the reason i think he might be is becasue of these reasons, some are details thats might be stupid, others are more serious.1 he knew my name when i never had him before. Yet he spoke to me as if he knew me.2 my friend matt hurt his finger as a joke i asked if hed like me to kiss it better. sir overheard and said "were u being suggestive there *myname*?"i said "no sir" then he said "were you being naughty?" and looked me up and down the was he said it...3 i needed help (ICT) he put his hand on top of mine when i was holding the mouse to try and control my mouse.4 generally the way he speaks and looks at me and the way he used me for every single example in the class.I'm sorry this has been a long one but i REALLY need help. i dont know whether to tell anyone because i really like *said teacher* and wouldnt want things to be awkward if he was told to back off. also i might just be paranoid because of what happened to my sister and wouldnt want to cause trouble over something stupid in my head.somebody please help me. its really getting me down and giving me nightmares..
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reader, rcn  + ♥, writes (5 November 2007):
 Just monitor his behavior. If he says anything inappropriate, let him know you don't appreciate it. Or the simple way, look at him and in a shocked voice say "What". He'll back off, because that shows your not comfortable with the advance.
I wish you the best, and if it gets worse, turn him in. It's for the best. All though it may be difficult, you don't deserve to be hurt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi guys thanx for all your help. i seriously still have no idea what to do ='[.. im so nervous that ive taken it the wrong way..
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reader, keely-h  +, writes (4 November 2007):
 if this happend in my school i would be shocked the mouse thing he is touching you its physical contact.he should not have done that the kissing it better part thats gross.i think there is deffinante somthing dogey please email me if anything else happens xxxxxx
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (3 November 2007):
 hello.
I agree with my other friends, this is a situation that you really do not need to get into, he is not only an adult who should know better, but he is a teacher which makes it a hundred times worse, you really need to talk to another teacher, maybe female who will understand what you are going through,if that does not work then go to the head master, if you should still feel that nothing is being done then tell your parents, they will now what to do.
Hope this helps please keep in touch.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2007): Hunny,
Tell someone you as a family have been through alot it not you over reacting his behaviour is unacceptable please talk to a teacher you can trust or your parents love.
TAKE CARE OF YOU LOVE MANDY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, lilgirly  +, writes (3 November 2007):
 hey,
know this might be hard for you but still you have to do something ...
anyways this behaviour is unexplanwhen he makes jokes about you don't smile look very serious and don't smile ...
you have to tell someone you trust like your mum tell her what is happening . sorry dear i know it is hard for you but still this life is always full of hard choices and hard thoughts but if you don't stand up for yourself you will be the victim.
being a pervert is a very big deal, especially that he is a teacher that means twice the dangour ( always around young girls) do it for all these girls .......
good luck byeXXX and please tell us what happens.
take care please.
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reader, rcn + ♥, writes (2 November 2007):
His behavior is inappropriate. I'd tell someone. It's important that teachers remain in a professional role with their students. When stuff like this happens, they need stopped. Even if you get through it, and if he is a major pervert, who is going to be the unlucky one to be raped?
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