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writes:hello !i have a freind and shes my best freind and she has started to be mean to me for no apparent reason.she comments on things i say even if they dont involve her she constantly has a little go at me for no reason.today a girl who i am not fond of said something mean about me and she burst out laughing.i got hurt because she is ment to be my bf.she will call me a ugly little bitch for no reason when she is not "pretty" herself i could never call someone ugly even if they were because its mean.what should i do about my vile freind? Reply to this Question
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reader, xxhatexxlovexx  +, writes (2 July 2008):
 shes not worth your time. shes not a nice person. You need to just tell her off. You are so much better without her. What kind of friend would call you a little ugly bitch, or laugh like that?
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reader, dangerouslove. +, writes (30 June 2008):
 I have a couple friends like this myself. Except it's all joking and just talk. Maybe she just doesn't realize she's hurting your feelings, and thinks shes being playful?
If so, do it back! When she says something rude, say something rude back and then laugh. I think she might think she's doing it with the right intentions, just confront her and tell her how you feel and her rude comments. It also could have to do with puberty? Some of us girls can get a little mean when it comes to that. But yeah, just confront her, tell her how you feel! If she's really your best friend, she'll understand and stop, and hopefully say sorry.
Good luck.
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reader, graciie; +, writes (30 June 2008):
your a teenager girl these things happen
this phase will pass,
xo
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (30 June 2008):
 i think that you should confront her and ask her why she thinks she can treat you like this? she may be really insecure and it ups her own confidence to put you down. talk to her and tell her that your not going to stand there and take it anymore. you have respect for yourself and so should she. if she does continue then distance yourself from her. she needs to learn that she cant treat ppl - esp a best friend like that its awful and she should be ashamed of herself. email me if you wanna chat, keep in touch too cos i'd like to hear how you get on.
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (30 June 2008):
 talk to her and find out what is going on and why she is being like this. if she continues...well to be honest she probably isn't worth your upset...
good luck
mail me if you want to chat
sparkii x
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reader, softballplaya +, writes (30 June 2008):
 Hey hun=]
Well my advice would be to confront her and ask her why shes suddenly changing ya know. If she continues to be mean then clearly she isnt worth having as a friend. You dont need someone like that in your life anyways, surround yourself with people that want to build you up not bring you down. I would personally go with the give-her-a-dose-of-her-own-medicine approach. Let her realize that the way she is treating you is wrong. As for the girl who called you those ignorant choice of words..ignore her, she is prolly jealous. Dont worry. You will see friends change, unfortunately your at the age where everyone goes down a different road...some better than others. Im right there with ya. Just ask her what the problem is. Im sure things will be okay girl=]
take care && best of luck!!
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reader, marmajuke +, writes (30 June 2008):
 hey!! i think perhaps you should mix with some different people who are nice, talk to her occasinally but when she sees you mixing with others then she might start being nicer...she may have a jealousy problem atm...?? good luck xxx
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