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writes:So, last year i had this amazing teacher. Me and my friend both got special attention from him. He would always let us do stuff, and we got AWAY WITH EVERYTHING. Other students were starting to realize the special treatment he gave us, so me and my friend decided to back off a little, so we wouldn't get him introuble. But it only made things worse. We began seeing him after school, between classes, before school, calling his house phone and talking to him. Everyday he would have us lunch, and he would bring us snacks. and he would ALWAYS say sexual comments to us. Me and my friend [[we are both girls]] and we are attracted to eachother as well, but more in a "lust-kind-of-way", and he finds it very hott. [[so he says]]. After the school year ended and we both passed his class, we still couldn't get enough of eachother, he began to take us both out of class [[even when we were in 2 diferent classes]], so we can hang out with him in his planning period. He would really open up to us, and tell us his problems with his current students, and how much he misses us, and that we will always be his favorite.the other day, we were talking about sex, and he was like "hmm..if u didn't go to this school...you don't even know wht i would do to you both."and hes ALWAYS says stuff about his sex life.[[hes married, and has GROWN children]]I tried talking to my friend about it, and she said "i like him...but...HES OLD! AND GROWN! i love joking around with him, and having the attention..but...its..kinda gross to think about"which i don't find it gross at all.I fantasize about being with him, and...i think i deeply love him, and i honestly think he loves me.What should i do?I don't want to get him introuble, but..we are really into eachother..and i really want to start showing it physically.
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reader, Ellzy  +, writes (23 January 2009):
as much as u seem to like him... its not right hun.. seriously.. u think ur inlove with him.. but i garantee its more lust... if he loved you back he would'nt even mention sexual things... fact is he just wants to fuck you, take advantage & nothing else.. sorry if u dont like the truth
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reader, smartazngirl +, writes (3 January 2009):
 Wow, I think your teacher's going a little extreme there. In every way, he's going extreme. I suggest you... run away from him.
Don't get me wrong here. I've had a crush on a teacher before. I was his TA and I was his student the year before. We've talked, maybe joked around a little, but never went that far in conversations. He found out that I had a crush on him, but his reaction was very different from your teacher. He kept his distance and put in 2 more TAs so we wouldn't be alone together anymore. Even though he did this, he nearly got fired for it.
-My teacher was probably older than yours, and I was 13-14 years old.
So if you don't want to cause him trouble, don't do anything. Just run away and don't talk to him anymore.
I hope my answer helps.
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reader, roadman +, writes (31 December 2008):
 Enjoy the feeling,look but don't touch..Cut down the time you all spend together,its not worth the tension where such connection can lead to...
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reader, elisa_lee +, writes (31 December 2008):
 I can sort of understand why you would say it's gross when you really don't think that. People are attracted to all different attributes and types, not just what fits into the socially accepted norm.
Wow.. this man has poor judgment at the least. He's probably a little unsatisfied with his home life and clearly has a hard time coping with all the attention/affection you send his way and the temptation it brings him. I'm not making excuses, he might even have a bit of sexual predator in him (beyond that which being a straight male frequently indicates). I'm just saying what's probably true. He's still stupid and a jerk to be saying this stuff to you.
If you don't want to get him in trouble *leave him alone* -go, flee, run away. For god's sake don't touch him, even if you think it's what you want you risk seriously ruining the man's life in every way. If you like him, show it by cutting him loose.
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