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female
age
26-29,
*masha
writes:We had a young foreign teacher in our school. He's 12 years older than me. He didn't teach us. But everyday I went and talked with himHe's so handsome and smart. He came to our house for dinners and in the tea times.we are family friends. Even he didn't teach us when we have questions he helps us. I love him a lot. I want him but he went to his country. He gave me a present when he's goning. I didn't have guts to tell him that I love him. I am afraid tell him that. I thought he will get angry because he has a girlfriend I have met her. But I chat with him on fb.I don't know what to do. I cried a lot and got fever after he went. My mom was asking what has happens to you. I didn't tell her the reason. If I tell her that she will get scold me. Because she knows that he has a girl friend please help me what should I do?I'm not so good in English. There will be grammar mistakes
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2011): You're very young. These feelings can be typical.
Be happy you met someone who made you feel this way, and move on. You don't need to tell him you love him. You might lose him. Just be happy you were able to meet.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 July 2011):
 You need to try and move on from this. You had a crush on this man and at your tender age this can seem so painful when he does go away. But you need to realise in his eyes you were probably just a friend. He has a girlfriend and am sure he loves her very much. Plus you are under age and you are still a student so even though he wasn't your teacher he could still get in trouble if he was anything more than a friend to you. If you are close with your mother I think the best thing you can do is tell her how you have been feeling. She might be angry at first but am sure she understands that you cannot help how you feel and she might help you get over him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2011): Your teacher is just that, a teacher. He's there to teach and guide kids, not to be your love interest. Sorry if I'm rude but many of us teens don't know what love is yet and liking a teacher isn't love. He's with someone else and most importantly its inappropriate. This is just an infatuating crush and you will move on sooner or later. There's no need to tell your mom. Everyone has crushes and we don't go around telling people unless we want them to know.
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