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writes:What should a person do if they are falling for someone, and that person tells them they have a certain type a woman they like, and it's not you, and they don't have time but maybe one day a week, they are to busy to see you more then that, you live in different towns, but only a few miles apart, but he only can see you in your town. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2018): Well.. He wants to have sex once a week.. Thats all what you want?? You deserve better lady! He states he doesnt like you! Move on girl! Dont let him use you with his petty words
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2018): Sorry, he rejected you in a weird way; but he's willing to have a fling with you. He wants to be friends with benefits.
Don't!
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reader, N91  +, writes (23 April 2018):
 What should you do? Take the hint.
He’s not interested.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious + ♥, writes (23 April 2018):
 What should a person do?
A person should take a good look at themselves and ask themselves if they are so desperate for male attention that they will settle for the few crumbs this man throws them, in rather bad grace.
They should ask themselves why they believe that is all they are worth.
They should stark working on building up their self esteem - starting with dumping this man and telling him they ARE worth more. (I promise you, that will make you feel a lot better than letting him use and abuse you in this way.)
He's not even free, for crying out loud, otherwise why would he insist on only seeing you in YOUR area?
Sweetheart, you are worth more. Don't sell yourself so short.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2018): YOU should realize he's not interested in you but knows you have feelings for him of which he wants to shamelessly take advantage by boinking you strictly on his terms and strictly at his convenience, and respond accordingly.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (23 April 2018):
 Wish him well and move on.
Why would ANY woman "compete" with a type? Why would you even consider dating a guy who has told you YOU are not HIS type. It's like him saying that he has "lowered his standards for you" or that you somehow should be grateful that he is dating you DESPITE not being his type.
And if he can only see you at your place, not around where he lives... then he is either hiding something from you... or wanting to HIDE you from someone.
If he REALLY cared for you he'd want to show you off for everyone to see.
Just chuck and move on. Try again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2018): Why would you even want a guy who straight up says your not his type ? That's a no brainer . Tell him have a nice day and move on to someone who is interested in you
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (22 April 2018):
 What you need to do is accept that your feelings are not reciprocated, and it wouldn't matter how far apart you are, a few miles or a few houses apart, he is not interested in a relationship with you.
You are not his type, and complaining about how little you see of him and how busy he is will not change that.
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