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reader, richie005  +, writes (15 May 2008):
look for a guy who is your age and is looking for a stable realationship,1 who isnt trying to rush things,pretty mutch a nice guy who loves you
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (15 May 2008):
 Someone who you find interesting, who shares a lot of your likes and dislikes, whose sense of humor is similar to yours and has the same values as you do. If they are too pushy or expect you to go faster that you want to, that's probably normal, but he shouldn't be pushing you too hard or forcing you to do anything that you don't want to. Your body, your rules. It's not a good sign if he's into alcohol or drugs either, or asks you to try either just to go along with him.
Anyone worth your time and affection should have your best interests at heart and bring out the best in you.
Anyone who encourages the worst qualities isn't someone that you should consider dating. I know you might not think that it's a great rule of thumb, but if you wouldn't be embarrassed to bring him in front of your parents, and he's okay with your friends too, thats the kind of guy that you should be looking for.
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reader, turtle escape +, writes (15 May 2008):
I think you should take things slow and be really careful. Not to say all guys are douche bags but guys especially the ones at your age are very "excited" and they will do anything to get what they want. Even if this means breaking your heart. So I would say be very careful that you find a good guy. Try it out I am almost positive (even though I would never wish anything on you) that you will get your heart broken atleast once probly more than that. Do not ever give up and make sure that you do not let them walk all over you. That is definetly something I have learned throught my dating experiences. I have always let people walk all over me and in a relationship although its very hard do not let them walk all over you. SO my answer to your question, I think you should look for a good guy that is not only going to want sex, but also is interested in you and can be your friend and be there for you when he is needed.
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reader, stuckinthemiddle81 +, writes (15 May 2008):
 Fun! Fun! Fun (thats safe)! At this age, you're just feeling out the waters on boys and "adult content" situations. Don't take boys too seriously and don't rush anything especially when you are not comfortable. Its good if you find someone that you know and you're comfortable with and makes you laugh and is not a douche bag. You'll know when you find him but mainly be safe and have fun.
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