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What is your advice for me and my lover in this situation?

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Question - (2 July 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 July 2010)
A male age 36-40, anonymous writes:

iam 26 and my lady is 44. she is married and living with her family, but without any co operation or help from her husband in any thing except in bed..but she dont have her heart in sex with him as she have many negative feelings towards him due to his no co operation in other things!!. im single and we are in love..for the past 2 years! really enjoy each other's company...but without any "relation" yet! we both like to have "it"....but she scared of society and her "self" stopping her to go further....

what do you advise her/me/us?

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A female reader, sweetcaroline United States +, writes (3 July 2010):

Sad truth: if she has kids, she probably won't leave them. They should be, and probably are, the number one priority. They need a dad, too, and if she leaves the marriage, you'd have to be that dad. And if she really loves you, she would have told you she intends to leave her husband or have already done so. It seems like she's in her marriage for security. If you can't provide that, she won't be leaving him any time soon. Or ever.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (2 July 2010):

eyeswideopen agony auntYou are just having an emotional affair with a married woman. She is either grooming you to be her her full fledged boy toy or she's just in it for the emotional high. Either way she's using you so it's up to you to decide if you are okay with being manipulated.

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