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What is wrong with me and how can I fix it?

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Question - (12 November 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 November 2008)
A female United States age 26-29, *icole_007 writes:

I have had problems with orgasms. I have never had an orgasm through intercourse and it's hard for me to have one through masturbation. I have had a UTI, possible yeast infection, and am on birth control. I am wondering what is wrong with me and how to fix it. It is interfering with my relationship with my boyfriend because he feels like he's failing.

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A female reader, rejuven8 South Africa +, writes (12 November 2008):

I'm also very hard to 'please'!!! The only thing I can tell you, is to relax and enjoy every moment. Try all the styles humanly possible, until you find something you really like! And I hope your bf is 'heating you up' properly before he penetrates you, otherwise he wont be able to get you anywhere!

If nothing works and you're getting desperate, try blue movies, I know most woman don't like to watch it, but it works like magic, and your bf wont mind that much! (I'm also female, by the way) Oh, anyway, the 'play' lubricant from 'durex', helps a hell of a lot, to give you just a bit more 'feeling'! Doing 'it' in different places also work (like switching the bedroom for the bathroom).

I don't know how adventurous you are, so sorry if I'm no help at all!!!

Good luck an happy orgasming!!!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2008):

Honestly, I have been unable to orgasm during sex(9 out of 10) either and I have had a yeast infection as well. I doubt that has anything to do with that(I'm not a professional) but I would suggest something new.

Try the "venus butterfly" When my man did that it was the first time i have ever been able to orgasm.

tell him to lay on his stomach with his head near your vaginal area. then have him place two fingers inside of you and have him lick you clitoris. EXPERIMENT FROM THERE+GOOD LUCK!!

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