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30-35,
*eiskleiriana_1
writes:So, about 6 months ago, I met a guy on a music website. We've been IMing and Skyping ever since and we've gotten to be pretty good friends. Ever since we started talking we've flirted a lot but it's always been clear that it was a 'just friends' relationship.Until last week.We were doing a video call and he asked me if I wanted to play a game. I said ok, and we started to play Hangman. I guessed a wrong letter and he told me it was strip Hangman, but I thought he was kidding so I laughed it off. He said he was serious, if it was ok with me. I agreed to it and we played a couple of rounds until we were both naked, and then we started playing Truth or Dare. We dared each other to mess around in front of the camera, and when I picked Truth, he asked me if I'd go on a date with him sometime. I said yes, but since we live about a 3 hour plane flight from each other, it's easier said than done. We agreed that we would both like that though, and that we could work it out. A few days ago, we did another video call and ended up playing a game again with the same results.My question is (finally, haha!), what is the proper etiquette for this relationship? Is it actually a relationship? Should I consider myself fully committed, not committed at all, or somewhere in between? Neither of us are seeing anyone else right now, so at the moment it's not an issue.Thank you for your help!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2010): My rule is always to assume it's a commited relationship so you can't be called out for cheating later on, but at the same time keep your hopes in check. Sadly since you haven't met him in person you never know what will happen when you do. Good luck, and for the moment I say just have fun.
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