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writes:I have a male friend who I've been having frequent contact with lately, almost daily at all hours. Sometimes mundane conversation, other times he's talking to me about past relationships, perils of dating online etc). I'm a bit confused though because at times he'll send me a message (sometimes voice) just to say good morning or "morning" but then he won't say anything else?What's the point in that? I don't get it. Any advice as to why he'd do this if he doesn't want an actual conversation? Reply to this Question
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reader, Garbo +, writes (2 July 2017):
 Perhaps you come across as stand offish to him while he may want to strike a convo with you. It's just an invitation to more talk. If you wish not have a talk with him then tell him to stop.
In case you are interested in him then engage into a conversation with him by getting him to talk to you. He could be shy or just short on words and ideas what to say to you. It takes two to tango so if you dont engage back it will sound all awkward to both.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (1 July 2017):
 It's to establish contact with you! Like Denizen said, he's thinking about you. He may not have the time beyond a simple digital "wave hello", but here's an idea.
Next time he simply says "Good Morning" to you, you can be playful and ask "What's making your morning good?" and then post NOTHING until he answers! I wouldn't be surprised if your response gets him to smile while he replies.
Open-ended questions are your best friend right now. I would be guessing that he's interested in you! If you're interested in him as more than a friend, nothing's stopping you from being the one to ask HIM out, if you so choose. Otherwise, give him some open-ended questions (which means questions that don't have "yes" or "no" as an answer), and see where the conversation takes you!
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (1 July 2017):
 It is to let you know he is thinking about you. It's a good thing. He may be looking for an indication that you want to move the relationship to the next level - that you might like to date.
If you would then take your courage in your hands and ask him to join you for a meal or whatever.
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