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writes:Hey, I'd love some advice on the meaning of a gift I received for xmas from my bf of 4 months, please. We said we'd get each other little gifts, but he bought me a beautiful sapphire necklace :) I'm not sure what this means (he hasn't ever told me he loves me) and I'm not sure what to buy him in return to express how much he means to me, so I'd love your ideas, please. He's an outdoors-y guy, into cooking, hiking, going to gigs, computer games... Thanks :)
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reader, Fionnlagh +, writes (28 December 2010):
 Good guys just want to make their gals happy, that’s all. Are you happy, because if you are, that’s all he needs to know in return.
Spend time with him I’d say, he’ll appreciate that more than any gift. Have fun :)
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reader, Tutti  +, writes (28 December 2010):
Don't read too much into the necklace. Take it for what it is (a sapphire necklace) and enjoy it as such. Then sit back and watch what unfolds going forth.As for gift ideas, buy him what feels right to you. You need not match the price of his gift to you to your gift for him. Be considerate, creative and let it come from your heart.Good luck!
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reader, ManAfterChrist  +, writes (28 December 2010):
 Don't get him anything! He knew you weren't going to get him much, and he chose to get you that necklace. Just LET IT BE a present, and be happy! Otherwise, it's like you're buying your own gift with a gift to him, and it might make him second-guess the awesomeness of what he did.
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