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What is spooning??

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Question - (19 May 2008) 11 Answers - (Newest, 30 May 2008)
A age 22-25, anonymous writes:

What is spooning, and why do people seem to make such a big deal out of it?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008):

This helped alot, I was quite embarassed because I didnt know what this was and I passed it off like I knew what it was when I was talking to my girlfriend on the phone, and it would have really been bad if I didnt know.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2008):

I thought spooning was what you might do to a fruit like cantalope.

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A female reader, lexilou United Kingdom +, writes (19 May 2008):

lexilou agony auntI love spooning. Just think of two spoons nestled in a drawer, its not usually referred to as a sexual position but you could do it that way. Me and hubbie spoon every night and used to sleep that way all night long when we first met. 5 years on I have to move after about 20mins as it gets too hot and he's a heavy lump when he falls asleep with his arms wrapped round me. Once I move away we turn our backs on each other which apparantly is a sign of trust x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008):

Hi, Jess,

I may be a little older than you, (who knows) or may be somewhat old fashioned but I see spooning as "a little bit of sex". I mean the guy's wedged up against you, with his bits rubbing against you. I'd sure hate it if my man were to "spoon" with anyone but me. (LOL)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008):

Good grief, I don't think I've ever heard of spooning referenced to as a sexual position (although that is one, I would just say its the 'side position') Everyone I know thinks of spooning as a way of cuddling, like the others said, from behind. Its just really nice and comfortable. Try it! xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008):

The feeling that spooning with my boyfriend gives me, of being tucked into his big, warm body, his broad chest against my littler back, his strong arms wrapped around me is possibly my most favourite thing in the world, ever. I never feel so safe, warm, cared for and loved as I do then. We're in a long-distance relationship and I think that's the thing I miss most. Just nothing beats it.

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (19 May 2008):

LazyGuy agony auntSpooning is just one person hugging the other from behind, lying on their side. Like two spoons stacked together.

It can be sexual, but I know it most from a sleeping/cuddling position.

What is so special about it? It is very intimate yet comfortable. Wether it is better then other positions to sleep in is personal I think. We all got our preferences as couples.

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A male reader, Uncle Sneaker United Kingdom +, writes (19 May 2008):

Uncle Sneaker agony auntNot a lot of people know that...

I didn't. *blush*

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A male reader, Jamer70 United Kingdom +, writes (19 May 2008):

Jamer70 agony auntI know spooning as what variety has said. Two people hugging each other. One facing away from their partner the other hugging them from behind

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A female reader, Variety United Kingdom +, writes (19 May 2008):

Variety agony auntIt doesn't have to be a sexual position. It can just be a type of cuddle where one parter faces away from the other one and they cuddle into each other. It is a really nice way to cuddle.

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (19 May 2008):

kenny agony auntSpooning is where two partners lay side side with the woman facing away from the male, the male penetrates the female in this position, normally with this spooning position there is normally some overlapping on legs. Not sure why people make a big deal out of it, if they do. Its just another sexual position that i guess is more fun to do than the normal micernary position.

Hope this helps x

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