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writes:Quick question, is it normal for a guy to call his girlfriend of 3 weeks, 10 times in 23 hours for a chat, lasting between 4 mins to 1 hour at a time? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi Guys,
Thanks for taking the time to read and reply to my question. It probably seemed an odd question given my age but I have been out of the dating scene for the last 8 years or so. I appreciate that things will settle soon but for the time being I will enjoy the attention!!
To LonelyTwo, thanks for your lovely comment at the end :)
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reader, Starmonster888 +, writes (15 April 2010):
 You know what they say about guys who call a lot? They say "damn, that guy sure calls a lot!"...bad joke.It's really only a problem if the conversation isn't great and you find it too much, in which case all you have to do is politely tell to cool down a little.It also makes it pretty obvious that he's sprung, which is always a good thing to know!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (15 April 2010):
 He is like a tempest or a whirlwind, very strong in the beginning and fade out quickly once it is over.
He should moderate it and learn to run a marathon than a short sprint.
2 or 3 calls in a day is quite normal but 10 times a day is bothering on the insane...LOL!
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reader, Lexie88  +, writes (15 April 2010):
 It is a bit excessive, but frequent calling and chats are very common at the beginning of any relationship. I don't know if I could handle 10 times in 23 hours though.
But don't get used to it and don't expect it to continue. He's infatuated right now and the frequency of the calls will drop soon.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (15 April 2010):
 Over the top. But he sounds like he is just crazy about his girl. So unless you have a problem with it relax, it will slow down with time. Right now he's just overwhelmed that he actually has you as his girlfriend and want to cling to you 24/7. This is thypical behaviour for people who are in love and in the starting phases of a relationship, where they just can't get enough of each other. I even ended up moving in with a boyfriend after only one month because we couldn't get enough of each other and I didn't go a day without seeing him for a whole year. That was over the top... don't go there. But I bet that your boyfriend will calm down like they thypically calm down, once he gets more comfortable with your relationship.
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (15 April 2010):
 It's a bit much unless you're into it. :)Everyone who falls in love wants to be together 24/7.
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reader, Not My Name +, writes (15 April 2010):
 Not typical, but my guy was doing that as well as dropping in to see me anywhere up to 7 times a day the first few months we were together. He just couldn't believe he had a crush on me for 4 years, finally got to talk to me, and we ended up together - so it could be a head over heels with ya thing going on there. :-)
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (15 April 2010):
 Hmm probably not normal im guessing he wants to tell you something that he cant work up the nerve to just tell you. I would suggest being prepared for some shocking news.
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