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What is my best course to date my cousin?

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Question - (27 October 2017) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 November 2017)
A male United States age 26-29, *needhelp478 writes:

I’m in love with my cousin. We haven’t seen each other in 3 years her mom is my aunt and she has been going through a custody battle but she finally won. Anyway, when we were younger we would swim together and I was ten she was 9 and she would flash me her pussy and I would with my penis.

Now that we live literally right next to each other and she keeps bending over or she will wear short shorts and will sit in a way where I can see half of her bare arse and I don’t know if it’s by accident but it's making me crazy. Now keep in mind we are not related by blood or marriage. Please help what should I do?

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A female reader, femmenoir Australia +, writes (2 November 2017):

femmenoir agony auntI believe in this instance, because you're still young, you're being driven by your huge surge of male testosterone.

Any girl would get you going at your age, but yes, you have this specific interest in this girl.

You still use language within your msg that is very much reminiscent of your age, ie: pussy, arse.

You are related to this young lady, so you shouldn't be pursuing any type of intimate relationship with her.

You are lusting after her and with time, as you mature mentally, you will come to see that it's not such a good idea.

Any type of relationship with this young lady isn't going to reap positive rewards, both for the two of you, nor for the entire family.

I would strongly advise you against it and try getting out there and finding somebody more appropriate to date, hang out with or even have sex with, if that's your ultimate ambition.

She is bending over because she too is young and is flirting with you.

She may not want you intimately, but she may like the "idea" of it and of the flirting.

Trust me, it won't work and it isn't a good option for you.

You should try to keep away from her, from seeing her and from checking her out as much as possible.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (27 October 2017):

aunt honesty agony auntHow do you know you are in love with her if you have not seen her in three years? What use did when you where both younger was children having INNOCENT fun, there was nothing sexual about it and should not be seen as sexual now considering you where both very young children.

Okay so she lives next to you, but if she is your AUNTS daughter then she is related by blood and family. If she is wearing short shorts it might be because she is warm and she is comfortable wearing them, it does not mean she is doing it for your benefit. The sight of a girl in shorts is making you crazy because you are young and cannot hold in your hormones, however I highly recommend staying away from your cousin or your whole family will end up suffering. Go out with friends more meet more people your age and find a girl who has no connections to your family.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (27 October 2017):

Honeypie agony auntHer mom is your aunt, so you ARE related by blood. That is what makes her your COUSIN and not just some random girl. Now if this AUNT is the wife of your mom/dad's brother and had this girl BEFORE the marriage... then yes, she isn't related by blood but still by family.

OP, this is lust and taboo. Some sort of incestual fantasy. Not uncommon but perhaps not right way to go.

There is a reason WHY cousin relationships and marriages are considered a no-no. Maybe you should read up on that.

What do you think your family will say if you go after this girl? And how AWKWARD will things get if it doesn't work out?

Why not look for a GF outside of this pool of FAMILY members instead....

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