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writes:I have been best friends with this guy for nearly 2 years now. Well i consider him as a bestie. He is 19 years old and i know everything about him ranging from his hobbies to his family. I feel like i am really close to him so much so that i know about all his issues etc. I really hate to argue with him and for that reason, i have only argued with him once and was torn to tears over it. Previously, a year ago, i had feelings for him and when i confessed to him i was rejected. However, recently my ex just blocked me off everything and for some reason, i felt that i will always be fine as long as he is with me. So my question is what is all this that i'm feeling and why do you think i feel like this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2016): I went through the same thing with my bestie, we both loved each other and wanted to date, but we both mutually agreed to just stay besties forever and not ruin our friendship by an actual relationship.I understand how hard it can be though because when I started talking to my bestie, he had a girlfriend and I couldn't do anything about it. Since he has rejected you, that doesn't mean your friendship is over. Maybe he needs more time to think it over, but do not push him about it or hassle him over it. That would only make him aggravated. Continue to be friends and see where things go from there. And from my experience I will tell you do not let the jealousy get the best of you because he could do what my bestie did (he bestie dumped me and now he hates me) Trust me, if you do something rash you will regret it constantly like I do. It's the worst feeling ever. Take things slow, rejection does hurt but that shouldn't stop you from still supporting him. You're his best friend, he needs you. Good luck and please keep us posted on what happens! xoxo
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2016): You're probably very comfortable around him and know him so well you have a natural connection.
I am very close to my best friend and he likes me but I only see him as a friend. It is difficult but maybe pull yourself away from them and consider what you really want.
rejection can cause you to want to feel loved so you have turned to your closest boy.
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