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What if I don't like kissing??

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Question - (1 November 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 2 November 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 16-17, anonymous writes:

I had my first PROPER full on kiss with tongues and all that last night, and it was a very weird feeling...like, not what I expected at all, and I'm not quite sure if it was a good weird feeling or a bad one.

What if I don't like kissing?!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2007):

i felt the same first time i used tongues when kissing. Now i can't get enough of it with my b/f!

When you kiss someone you care about and who cares about you you'll do what feels right and that doesn't nessecarily mean using tongues.

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A female reader, howcomehoney France +, writes (2 November 2007):

howcomehoney agony auntFirst time I ever kissed someone I thought it was the most disgusting thing in the world. I thought, "This is what everyone makes such a fuss about?" I was completely grossed out. And now, many years on? I love it. Yeah, it's weird at first. Most first kisses are kind of horrible. Don't worry about it.

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A female reader, Miss C United Kingdom + , writes (2 November 2007):

Miss C agony auntMaybe you had a first bad experience with kissing which is very common with many people.

Kissing is something you just learn to get used to with time so don't worry! It feels strange and weird at the beginning but as you become more experienced at it and learn new techniques to kissing it becomes more enjoyable and you begin to feel more at ease!

I hope this helped! Miss C xx

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A male reader, Asexy United States +, writes (1 November 2007):

Asexy agony auntGive it a few more tries. You may not have been with a good kisser.

If you've done it for a while, and you've found someone who does it well, and you're STILL not interested, there are lots of other things you can do.

Be careful, though. Often if you jump beyond kissing too fast, you are suddenly more involved than you wanted to be.

Good luck.

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A female reader, HelloKitty United Kingdom +, writes (1 November 2007):

if you dont like using tounges dont..jus kiss with lips only...my boyfriend didnt like kissing with tounges but i got him used to it an now thats all he ever uses is his tounge hehe...but if your not keen on using tounges dont use tounges...but use it every so often to see if you can start to like it

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