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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I met my boyfriend back in August. We are 20 years apart. One night back in the summer when we were supposed to hang out, he was with his sister and I guess told her he had plans and she asked with who and he told her about me and she now hates me. She has still never met me but on Christmas she will. I'm usually a very confident person but I already feel uncomfortable about being around her. Any suggestions on something I can do?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (28 November 2010):
 http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-know-this-sounds-stupid-but-i-would.html
I knew you sounded familiar. However, in your last post you said you were 10 years apart not 20 years apart. So which is it? So I'm going to guess that's what she has against you, your age.
Just be yourself, you don't have to kiss her rear. Be as respectful as possible but if she starts to be rude hold your ground.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2010): Probably as she is 20 years older she just makes assumptions on how she was 20 years ago and thinks thats what you will be like r something. Also older women can sometimes, not all the time, just find a younger woman in a relationship with an older man a but of a joke.
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