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22-25,
anonymous
writes:My bf and I have been together since we were 15. We are still so much in love with upsets here and there which we work through. His parents are still clinging on to him like he's ten yrs. old. He's 21. He doesn't ever set them straight. Sometimes I think he likes his mommy calling and telling him what to do like what classes to take, etc.We have talked about getting married for the last couple of years, but can't agree on when to get engaged. How long should an engagement be and is it weird to be engaged in college. We thought we would, but now he says he doesn't "believe" in a long engagement which I have a feeling is coming from his mother. So, I guess there are two or more issues here. What do you think about the engagement and/or the mommy factor. Thanks!
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reader, SugarCookie +, writes (30 September 2008):
I think it is a little sad that he does what his mother tells him. He needs to grow up and make his own decisions. U really need to decide if you can be with someone that needs their mom that much.
As far as the engagement I have been with my fiance for 4 years and have been engaged for 3. We got engaged when i was still 15 and haven't married because of my finacial aid for school and my health insurance. An engagement can be for as long as its needed. It just a promise to one day marry and spend forever with eachother!
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