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stephytee87
writes:What do you think about going to a medium for advice on your love life?I am very open minded about stuff like that and im going through such a hard time with a break up that i think this might help.What do you guys think? Anyone had any good experiences with them?Thanks!
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reader, Gena Bullock  +, writes (13 March 2008):
 You only hear what you WANT to hear...that's what you pay them for. Find a true friend and get honest answers.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (13 March 2008):
 Nobody knows the future except God.
If anyone can tell the future, he will be rich.
Soothsayers use the familiar spirits who help them find some of the answers.
You can go for it but do not believe in them.
Just for the fun only .
It is like those horoscope.
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reader, Ask oldersister +, writes (13 March 2008):
 I think if your having a really hard time that placing your future expectations in the hands of some gypsy is not a good idea. It's like giving a eager 13yr old boy a dull axe to wield. These things are supposed to be light and fun so wait on that and turn to your friends and family for support during this time. Best wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2008): Many years ago, I tried one. As mentioned below, they tell you common human lines that get our attention. They will want a good sum of money, so go with little. After your reading, they will tell you they have more information, possibly, the information is what you want, but for it to happen, you'll need to send a few hundred dollars. I spent $40.
I've had people tell me (women friends), to just keep busy doing things I like, and one day out of the blue, you'll meet someone. This seems to work. Keeping your mind off having someone seems to wash your karma, or wash away the desperate need that everyone else sees but yourself.
Then there is astrology. A book I fancied more for the indepth revelation of my character, which I agreed with, told me I was to meet my soul mate within months, and that she was a Taurus. We've been married for 20 years, though she isn't my soul mate ;)
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reader, BigSis + ♥, writes (13 March 2008):
 Stephy, You are more likely to get sound advice from us Aunties here at Dear Cupid. Have you seen how many of us there are?! :0
With mediums, a lot of their answers are purely guesswork, they may have some sort of hidden sixth sense, but they are also very clever, ie. they study your body language, read between the lines of your answers and even look deep into your eyes for clues.
First off, we will not charge you for our advice, and secondly, there are enough of us here to offer you the best advice we can.
No one in this entire Universe can map out your future, or tell you what will happen in your life, but there are several caring people around who are willing to help you take the right steps in pointing you in the right direction. Then you can choose which road to take.
I find this strangely cute yet somewhat amusing, that you are asking us for our advice on what we think about you going to a medium for advice.
We are at your beck and call 24/7 if you feel the need to talk. It's your decision, hon.
Speak to you soon :) BigSis xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2008): If you are a Christian you might try praying instead.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2008): I'm not one to believe in Mediums and Psychics myself.
But I am not arrogant enough to assume everyone is fake. There are a few, and I mean a few, in this world with the uncanny knack for knowing things they have no way to know. Being able to tell me accurately, minutely, things I have done in the past upon first meeting.
These people are rare and often not using such a talent for profit. Those that claim to be psychic in exchange for money are frauds.
I don't know how the real Mediums, one's whose abilities are under no doubt and cannot just be brushed aside by an Atheist (I'm and Agnostic by the way) opinion, do what they do... but I won't deny they exist.
There could be a rational explaination for all of this, or it could be supernatural. The point neither, I, They, or You know. So pretending otherwise on either side is just arrogance.
Flynn 24
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reader, q1605 +, writes (12 March 2008):
 I would never trust in or take love advise from a medium. I save their advise for lessor priorities like how to structure my investments for retirement
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (12 March 2008):
 Just don't be like my mom's friend. Don't pay them and tell them about your life. They are supposed to tell YOU what is going on in YOUR life.
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reader, maid_Marian_vetbabe + ♥, writes (12 March 2008):
 Whatever they say, you'll be expecting it to happen, and then you will make things happen in your relationship. If thats what you want thn go for it, but if you'd rather let things play out naturally then Id give it a miss!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2008): BLOODY BONKERS!!!!! I er dont believe in them, but if it gives you comfort then go along, part with you hard earned cash! For that matter, i will read your fortune if you send me a load of cash, yes you are going to be broke! sorry to sound so flippant, but they take money from people who are so vunerable it is robbery. Terrible. Please take care and use your gut feelings and common sense and sort your own problems out or get in touch with us. Thats what we are here for. Not that bloody crap.
take care
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reader, Uncle_Phil +, writes (12 March 2008):
 Many people believe in this sort of mumbo-jumbo, personally I don't.
The way I see it, it's a way of extracting money from the impressionable, vulnerable and gullible and I'd not recommend it under any circumstances - unless you needed a laugh.
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