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What do I say if my husband-to-be asks about my vagina being loose?

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Question - (9 November 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 9 November 2010)
A female India age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i m 26yr old getting married soon.. how do i answer my husband if he ask abt my vagina being loose.. i love him a lot pls help.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010):

the vaginal passage varies a great deal from one woman to another. This is quite natural.

Further, the vagina is designed to pass a baby through - the 'tightness' is no indication whatsoever that a woman is or is not a virgin. Simply put, the penis is too small an organ to cause permanent deformation of something designed to get so much bigger. I don't care how big a man's penis is, a vagina has completely closed back to previous levels of 'tightness' within a few hours of intercourse.

These myths upon which so much importance has been heaped are exactly that - myths. They bear no real semblance to reality.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (9 November 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntAre you a virgin? If you're not, and are supposed to be before marriage then I would tell him it's a woman's natural secretion (your wetness) that is making it seem loose.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010):

contract, squeeze, hold it for 10 seconds and release. You can do it anywhere. You can do it all day. No one can tell you are doing it. It will give you a delicious little thrill inside to know you are doing your vagina such a great favour daily. Aim for 100 contractions per day, every day, from now on. Trust me your husband will love your tight toned vaginal muscles (there are 23 separate muscles in a vagina). You will be able to squeeze his penis within your vagina and give him undulating squeezes the better you get. Stop worrying and start toning up your vaginal muscles.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010):

Why do u think it is loose? Is there something u know that you fear to tell him? Did u have sex with other men before him?

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A female reader, DenimandLace44 United States +, writes (9 November 2010):

DenimandLace44 agony auntYou tell him that just as men come in different sizes, so do women.

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