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writes:(OP's suggested title)Alright so if this get a little bit complicated I'm sorry but bear with me here...1. I'm Riley, I used to be dating Chris.2. Chris cheated on me with Rose.3. Chris and Rose broke up.4. Rose and Lissa got together, then broke up.5. I'm now dating Rose.6. Chris used to be dating lissa, but broke up with her in hopes of getting back with me.8. Rose in away on vacation for a month and I have little to no contact with her.9. These are all girls.10. My parents dislike all of them.So I have been with rose for about 2 months and a few days. She left to go on vacation and won't be back for a month. On the other hand me and Chris have been hanging out these past few days and even went to the movies with some friends tonight. I thought it was all going to be good and stuff when she reached over and grabbed my hand. We were fine, the movie got over, it was all good. I gave my round of hugs before I left and when I went to jig her she sneaked a kiss on my cheek and held me close, like she used to. I haven't been able to get her off my mind for a while now bit I'm still with rose. I have no clue what I'm going to do nor do I want to break anyone. I don't know what to do and I'm in desperate need of advice. If anyone could help me that would be amazing. I just don't know what to do. Advice anyone?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2010): Your welcome. Please keep us update ok
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reader, JustConner +, writes (15 June 2010):
JustConner is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks, it's nice to know that someone can understand my view of things and not just tell me that I am wrong and that I'm damned to hell, it means alot. Thanks again. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2010): Hi, i'm the guy from the previous post.
It's perfectly normal if your not sure about your own sexuality, cause you still young. I'm sure you are on your way to figure things out. Not to worry, go for a guy if he's interested with you, get to know some girls out there to see how you feel about being with them. Don't labelled yourself to soon. Trust me, it's a Bullshit if people are trying to convince your are stright or confused. Only you yourself know what you want.
So, your having the longest relationships with Chris and good to know that. You are not in any intention to hurt both of them, but the fact that she cheated on you before. What i'm trying to tell you is that longest relationshhip is not the same as strong stable relationship. Talk to her, why is she cheated on you?! There's no easy way to sort things out without any proper communication.
It's hurting them if you did not choose between one of them, i mean, your can not have a relationship with Rose and thinking about Chris at the same time. That not healthy right?
Talk,you really should confronted and talk. Just start some simple conversation, not to rush to the point.
Best luck.
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reader, JustConner +, writes (14 June 2010):
JustConner is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks. And yes I do still have feelings for her. I'm just torn between them because I love them both but can't hurt neither of them. I have been told that I'm just confused and need to stick with guys but I'm still iffy there cause I'm not the average girl. I'm, well honestly I don't really know what I am or who I will become but I know I am attracted to my two best friends and have no clue what to do. My feelings never really went away for Chris cause she was the longest relationship that I was in, but then again I have no clue what to do cause I'm honestly confused on what to do. I'm hurting someone either way...
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2010): In short, you are in a relationships with Rose and you still have feeling with Chris. Am i right?
To be honest with you, Rose on vacation for month and you are developing old feeling with Chris. It seem that your relationship with Chris is not as strong as you think. Based on the situation, three of you isn't ready to have any serious relationship with each other.
You should think what you really want from them and looking into what you are seeking from a relationship.
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