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What do I do? I push her too far!

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Question - (29 November 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 29 November 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

hi

i need help

i be n relationshp for 10 month now

sometime we agrue a lot but i love her so much but i poush her too far even she fed up of giving me chance

now she said it last chance and it i blow it up she wnt be with me but i dont like that word last chance so how can i get in her good book and make sure no more arguement

evn sometime i get in mardy moods or had drink ten start me off arguement with her

i want to be with forever with her

how can i save 10 month relationship from it happenin again

thanx

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A male reader, q1605 United States +, writes (29 November 2009):

q1605 agony auntIf this is not a troll post then I will be on here asking for therapeutic relief momentarily.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom + , writes (29 November 2009):

Stop drinking. That seems to be a problem for you.

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A female reader, AuntyEm United Kingdom + , writes (29 November 2009):

AuntyEm agony auntUmmm I guess your just going to have to take responsibility for your actions, quit drinking so much and quit pushing her.

She is spelling it out for you...STOP DOING IT!!!!!

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A female reader, straight to the truth United Kingdom +, writes (29 November 2009):

firstly take a look at who might be starting the arguments or aggrevating a situation and if it is you then try to stay calm and notice what you are doing, if she is pushing your buttons on purpose to provoke you then why do you want to be with her.

If you feel it is you that is causing this problem the stop, think about what you are saying and then try to calm the situation, you dont need to have the last word and sometimes people may just have a different opinion on something, there is no reason to argue about it.

she is a girl.....wine and dine her, she will see the effort you are making. take her out for dinner treat her to flowers, pay her a compliment. you dont need to do it all the time but these little things are whats important.

I hope it works out for you both.

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