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What do I do about this crush on my neighbor?

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Question - (13 November 2016) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 November 2016)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *imAlexa89 writes:

I moved into my new house in March on a new-build park. On the day of moving in a guy walked past with his dog and stopped to chat to my Dad who was stood outside at the time. My dad called me from the house to come and say hello. I said Hi and asked if he lived next door. He doesn't. He lives a little further up in one of the culdesacs which I have to pass to drive off the park. He then asked if we needed any help with moving. Unfortunately I didn't think quick enough and said no thank you. There was lots of us!

I'd only been in a week when I saw him walking his dog past. I was upstairs in my bedroom closing the windows. He walked past my house and then glanced back up at the window where I was standing. I panicked and closed the blinds quick.

Since then, throughout the summer he often walked past my house walking the dog. If I was outside the house I would say hello and ask how he was. He would always smile and seem to linger outside the house waiting for his dog to catch up.

I've seen him a few times when I've driven past. He always looks and smiles. Today he stopped and watched me drive past, making eye contact with me. We both were smiling.

There's just something about him that makes me feel drawn to him and my heart races when I see him. I'm not 100% sure where he lives and whether he has a partner or not.

Now that it's Winter I don't see him so much as it's always dark when I get home from work so he's not usually out walking the dog. What do I do?! Inviting him round seems a little odd as I don't know a great deal about him. I don't even remember his name!

Thank you for reading it all.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (14 November 2016):

aunt honesty agony auntHe sounds like a helpful guy. But you really don't know anything about him. The only way to find out is to stop him some day and chat to him if you meet him outside. Other than that I think it would be a bit strange just to start walking with him or inviting him in to your home.

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A male reader, BrownWolf Canada +, writes (14 November 2016):

BrownWolf agony aunt

You have legs too right? When you see him walking his dog, call out to him, ask him to wait up, and go for a walk as well.

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