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writes:About a year ago, I had a fling with someone who was attached - poor judgement on my part, I know. He broke it off, but wanted to remain friends, and I agreed, saying I wouldn't try to restart anything romantic, but just be his friend and be there for him.He promptly stopped talking to me. After three months of near-complete silence from him, he started msging me and saying he missed me, and wished I was with him, and using "xoxoxo" in his chats with me. I became upset, and chewed him out, and he said his internet was down, but he'd talk to me later.He didn't speak to me for nearly a week, and as I'd calmed down, I wrote him a birthday message in a different language (he was stationed overseas, and I thought it'd be a nice thing to do).He defriended me, and blocked me three months later.I don't know what to feel. Can anyone think of a reason why he'd block me after all this time? I think his partner might have found out that we still spoke, and went off on him. I don't care that he defriended me, it just hurts that he blocked me out of nowhere after I'd accepted his wish not to speak to him anymore. Reply to this Question
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reader, claws  +, writes (4 August 2011):
i got to say i have to agree his partner found out and or got in a fight with eachother
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reader, rcn +, writes (2 August 2011):
 It sounds like his partner found it as well. I'd just move on. If he contacts you down the road, his situation may be different where having communication won't interfere with his being with someone.
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