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writes: My ex girlfriend and I dated for 2.5 years before breaking up in the spring. We've been apart for 5 months now, she's been dating someone else for the last 2 months, but I still love her and realize what a huge mistake I made in ever breaking up. I told her this, and she said she doesn't know, because she'd be worried that I would hurt her again, and she's in this fresh new relationship with another guy, but she said she does still have feelings for me. She actually told me that she's 50/50 between the two of us and can't make a decision, so she's just going to stay where she is now and see how things work out. They're in a long distance relationship now, I feel like waiting for something to go wrong between them would take forever, and I want to win her back but I dont want to drive her away but forcing myself back into her life while she's with her new boyfriend. Any advice on what I could do to win her back?
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (31 August 2007):
 Maybe you could try talking to her again, tell her that you love her and you regret what you have done and you would love to have a second chance with her, but you do not want to put her under pressure so you think it would be best that you have no contact, to give her space to work things out.
Sometimes this works to win someone back it certainly helped for me, as you don't realise what you have really lost until it's gone completely.
If this does not work then i think it maybe time to move on.
Take care.xx.
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