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anonymous
writes:Hey this might seem like a strange question to ask but i'm meeting my boyfriends brother for the first time tommorow and i'd like some advice on what to wear.. i know this sounds extremely shallow but i'm not exactly the type of girl that my boyfriend would normally have gone out with (i think) and he's brother is bound to be slighty *shocked* when he meets me (background: my boyfriend is white, i am asian...) i guess i know he's not racist still i want to make a good impression PLUS im on my period nd my time of the month isnt exactly my most confident time, so please any advice would be greatly appreciated not just on clothes (i'm a jeans and cute/casual tops kinda girl and occainsionally when the mood takes me crazy unique outfits- buh am not sure that would be a good idea in this occainsion) ny advice on how to approach my situation tommorow will be greatly appreciated (bdw my boyfriend's bro is 15) thanks in advance
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys ure all amazing it went well (thank god) he seems lika sweet kid (but glad the first impressions are over now lol) Thankyou all so much!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (12 April 2007):
 It depends WHERE you guys are meeting up. If it's a casual setting I'd pick my best kick ass jeans and favorite top. If it more formal pick the skirt or dress that makes you feel the most comfortable. If you feel comfortable you will be more confident. He's 15, guys that age like any and all females anyway.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2007): Just be you - dress how you would have done to see your bf anyway.
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reader, kellyO +, writes (12 April 2007):
 Hi there,
Why not try this! Dress to impress your boyfriend instead. When you impress him trust me you will end up impressing them both most especially if they are tight.
I have heavy flow and Iam not very confident on my period so what i do is pad up properly and to build more confidence doing long meetings I usually go with a black skirt or trousers just to be safe. A lovely short black mini skirt(if you have got really great legs) might be all you will need to boast your confidence! Black goes with any colour so wont be hard to match up.If you feel nervous and want to change just tell them you want to go powder your nose, it works all the time.
All the best for your meeting and remember be yourself that might be all he wants to see.
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reader, nologo  +, writes (12 April 2007):
 First, it doesn't sound that you are shallow at all.
Second, there is a thing called unwritten dress code.
Think whether you need to impress your boyfriends brother, because if something goes wrong they both will kick you out.
Competition within Family should be avoided by any means.
Anyway, if he is 15 he may be turned on by fashion girls.
Practical advice: watch girls around your age in that area.
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reader, DrCynic +, writes (12 April 2007):
 Well sweetheart, let me put it in perspective for you... Your boyfriend's brother doesn't matter... He's a child, ok?... To go out of your way to impress him is a poor use of your energy. My advice is when you meet him, just be yourself... Try to relax (I know it'll be hard given your time of the month), and find something comfortable for you...
Good luck.
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