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writes:I dated this girl in December only because I felt sorry for her and didn't want to turn her down, I know it was a dick move but it seemed right. We only dated for a week then I told her I didn't have time for a girlfriend and we should just be friends. Now I found a girl that I really like and we're dating, I love her so much and she loves me a lot, we get along so well but but my ex won't leave me alone and all she says to me is I hope you guys break up, I thought you didn't have time for a girlfriend and always picks fights and stuff and like stalks me. What do should I do or what should I say to her so she leaves me alone cuz I'm afraid she's gonna do somthing to make me and my girlfriend break up. please help me!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2008): Hi,
I am going through a similar situation with my ex, just stop all forms of communication with her.
If she still persits get the police involved, there are laws to protect us from being harrased, good luck
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reader, hlskitten  + ♥, writes (27 February 2008):
 HiWhy did you tell her you didnt have time for a girlfriend? If you really didnt, you wouldnt have started dating one within a month.Although she shouldnt be stalking you, it doesnt sound like she wants you, just angry that you lied. Understandable really. Nothing worse than a liar.But i think eventually she will meet someone new, realise they are better for her, and leave you be.Good luck.C xxxxx
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reader, Lucy2118 +, writes (27 February 2008):
 You shouldn't have lyed, you should have told her the truth because she's confused that you said you didn't have time for a girlfriend but has one. I think you should talk to her and say whats happened, not the stuff about going out because you felt sorry for her, no girl wants to hear that. Just say that you think of her more as friend then a girlfriend and want to get to know her better.
Hope this helps.
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reader, Kawika  +, writes (27 February 2008):
 If worse comes to worse....get a Restraining Order.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (27 February 2008):
 She is sour grapes.Nothing you gonna tell her will work or change her mind.Her mind is warped.
The best course of action is to just ignore her and she will lose interest in you.
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reader, Ask oldersister +, writes (27 February 2008):
 Regardless of how you ended things with your ex, she shouldn't be stalking you. You only went out for a week. I would take a friend (not your current girlfriend) with you and tell her very calmly but firmly "Your behavior is making me uncomfortable and I am letting you know that it needs to stop". Don't make it a threat or even say it in a threatening way. You will have a witness there so she will know you are serious about her stalking and hopefully she will discontinue her behavior. It would also be unfair to say this and continue to take her calls or argue with her so all interaction has to stop on your end too. I hope this works out for you and good luck with the new girlfriend!
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