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What can I do to speed up the process of getting back with my ex!?

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Question - (30 March 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 March 2007)
A female United States age 36-40, *orkieKrazed writes:

Help! Right as I thought I was getting over my ex, he came back into my life. At first he started saying don't do anything with any other guys, then he said do what feels right. He says he is confused and not sure what to think about me and him.

I am in love with him still, but am biting my tongue on saying that because I dont want to scare him off. We had dated for 3 and a half years!

Anyways, he heard I was talking to some guys (just as friends) and he said "I dont really think you love me because you are already talking to other guys!"

Gosh, what do I say to him??? How can I speed the process of us getting back together??

I would move mountains for him!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2007):

Why did you two split up in the first place? He won't of changed! He asks you not to meet someone and then says you can!!!! He is confused. Why are you letting him call the shots? What is so good about him? Don't let him do this to you - i would tell him to buggar off and find someone who you so deserve. If he wants to be with you and loves you there would be no hesitation.

Take care and let me know what happens in the future.

xx

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A male reader, Dazzerg United Kingdom +, writes (30 March 2007):

Dazzerg agony auntOk, I think the first question here is why has all this confusion suddenly kicked in? To be totally honest I would find it hard to answer your question without knowing the answer to that....

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