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writes: I am divorced seeing a guy 9 years younger, on and off for the past 5 years, i want more but it feels like he is testing me all the time to prove myself to him. i have 2 children my own home. what do i do to prove i have waited all this time for him, i dont want him to leave i want a great life with him?
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reader, David Lewis  +, writes (11 September 2006):
 What do you think he wants you to prove?
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (11 September 2006):
 Thats a lot for some guys to swallow. I mean instant family. You have instant responsibilities and ties. I don't think that you or the commitment is his problem but maybe everything that comes with it. He goes from being a guy on his own to being a guy with a family and two children overnight. This is a hard pill to swallow and it has been 5 years. You have to make it clear that you need something more stable and you want that with him if he can't understand that than you might have to read the writing on the wall and move on without him. Good Luck.
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