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13-15,
anonymous
writes:hi, i have a problem with a boy, and im not sure what to do. I really like him, and we've been out before, but we split up and it always ends in tears. My tears. I love him andn I know I do. When I hug him, I feel warm and safe. When I kiss him, i feel light as if im going to float up to heaven and you get the idea. I really want to be with him. We split up just over a year now, and Im still not over him. I try and try, but I can't. When I'm with him, I feel something that I never feel with anyone else. I never felt this way with my other boyfriends. I did like them alot! But not as much as this boy. He means everything to me. I know you should never make someone you everything, cos if you lose them then you have nothing, but I can't help it. Cos the whole class knows when we're going out and when we split up (cos we're like THE couple in our class) they always talk about why we split up and everything, and it upsets me, cos it makes me remember the things before. Eventually the class kew i got upset about it, and they tried to get us back together. My friends and his friends as well. But now everythig has gone wrong. I WANT to be over him, but I cant no matter how hard i try. One time I didn't even tyr, just hoping that it would go away, but it was all i ever think about. Even music reminds me of him.I cheated on him one time for about a day, but then rang him up and told him, and dumped the other boy i was out with. After he found out, we were still going out, but it kind of died in the end. We've been out a coupple of times after that, but he dumped me. He says he can trust me, cos we are friends, but he wont go out with me and its breaking my heart.Wha should I do or say to show him im not gonig to betray or hurt him again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for everyone that has answered, and dont worry im not gonna cheat again. i learnt my lesson the first time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2008): Ok, well i don't know what you can say, but however you can always try kissing him. As you said you feel like heaven when you kiss him, he must feel something, and it could bepossibility of getting together but this idea of mine aint that great could end up worse but could end up good.Sorry i can't be anymore help, not that above is much help.
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