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16-17,
PUNKiE BiSh !
writes:well i am a sexually active teenager and i have a boyfriend who i am madly in love with. we haven't had sex yet but sooner or later it's bound to happen and i just need some ideas on how to make " it " good. i wouldnt say i'm great at it, i know i'm good but i want it to be good for him also... so what should i do? Reply to this Question |
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reader, rachy-baby-helps  +, writes (26 August 2007):
 funny enough this guy will be fretting about the same thing as you so don't worry too much. It sounds as if you are unsure about the whole thing, because otherwise you wouldn't be worrying about how you are going to be. If you both love each other then it doesn't matter what the sex is like to start with, what matters is that you talk things over see how you can both improve.If he is a virgin, then he will be worrying about how well he is doing things, make it clear that you are not comparing him to anyone else because he could also worry about this. You're first time together should be special, so try to make it that way. Also lead up to the sex with foreplay and then it should be good.You have said that you are good, if he has heard you talk like this it could put him off. But if you have had no complaints from any other guy about sex then maybe you are.Good Luck :-) (make sure he's ready, with no pressure)
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