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reader, wilson12  +, writes (8 October 2009):
give her a necklace or some kind of jewelery but get it in her favorite colol. or u could get her some chocolates 2, and make sure u tell her u love her
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reader, xrickyx16 +, writes (11 February 2009):
okay first..... don't go to far on her , she might still think that dating is a little ill.... and if it's her first time try not to do the romantic arm trick and kissing and stuff ... that is just way to far for her first ..... don't go with rings and fancy bought cards and all that jazz.... just do like a handmade card or a nice box of choclates ... always be nice and have some humor.... NEVER IGNORE HER! and NEVER .. EVER ... INTERUPT HER WHEN SHE IS SPEAKING ! be on your best behavior... don't let her know you use the restroom alot and definately if your on a movie date don't leave for the restroom alot.... buy her ticket and food... always let her know she is safe ... and you have to show that you think she is special .... DON'T TRY TO SHOWOFF! be your normal nice self. be ESPECIALY on your BEST behavior in front of her parents. and don't go all suit and tie ... although i bet you wouldn't ;D and if she gets made fun of then just say "hey back off!" to the insulter! and oh yeah .. NEVER INSULT HER! now go on with your bad self ! I hope my advise helped you ... and btw yw =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2009): dude a lady love lotion or lip gloss. get her a single rose. she'll appreciate how u thought of her anyway! KISS HER!!! go ALL OUT!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2009): i would go to her house give her roses a teddy a box of chocolates and then give her a hug and a kiss then go ice skateing and when u take her home walk her to the dore hug/kiss goodnight tell her u had fun to night and a great time and when your on the date do NOT? ignor her talk to herand no do not dubble date
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reader, gmahima  +, writes (27 January 2009):
listen i am a girl and giving gifts to girls is quite an old-fashioned way.if u want to make her ur valentine say on her face that"u know who is the girl whom i think is the cutest and smartest in my life? if she says no say her that u r and i really like you as a frnd and that way also .So will u be my gf and my valentine 2.tell her that valentine is the 1 whom we luv and for me it is u and i am serious .i really like and plzzzzzz will u be my gf and my valentine also .and i am 100% sure it will work cause my bf did it the same way and i said yes and it really worked
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2008): give a rose a card or a teddy bear with a hug and if she wants give her a kiss
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reader, mike12  +, writes (12 September 2008):
well buy her a teddy and some chocolates and make sure to tell her how u feel???? have u kissed yet?
yes:take her out somwhere
no:take her to the movies and do the arm trick
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reader, xanda13 +, writes (8 August 2008):
Just be your self. get her some jewlry and a card. taje her to a movie and she will love you. i did it with my gf and shes all ova me now!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2008): hi i know you dond know me but i think you should get her a ring the cheapest there is then she will think your the best she ever had in her live
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2008): Roses, or something from isreal
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2008): first you send er luv notes
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): You need to hug her and ask her friends what music she likes etc. Just try the music thing or whatever she likes. It worked for me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2008): Just be free, do not speak in a mean way.be polite to her parents, impress her by doing something different like by playing music,playing sports with her. Just try to be cute and generous to her. The same things worked for me. NOw i even took her for date.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2008): yo im 12 to and i got the same problem i rote hher a poem and got her a hart shaped candy and a pink bear im 12 to and im her 1st boyfriend so im not reely shure just do something nice if she loves you she will like watever u give her
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2008): Well, since im 12 & a girl it depends,
does she want you to get all luvy duvy right away?
if so, do the teddy bear, chocolate roses thing 33
maybe even jewleryyy
if not,
be simple a card
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2008): if you want her to kiss you than you should get her flowers and chocolates and get her a card that says i love you
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2008): i'm the same age as you and your gf and every year my bf gets me a card and a box of whitmans chocolates. Why not try that?????It worked for him.(it's how he got me!!=))
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2008): Ok if I were you and I would get her some thing nice. I have had boys get me Teddy bears, but if you want to impess her get her jewelry. Girls love that and if its nice she may enven kiss you. You never know !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2007): Get et some Valentine chocolate and flowers
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2007): necklace clothes shoes purse somin like dat
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reader, Shelbyy-x +, writes (29 November 2007):
 lol how cute!!!
when i was 12 i bought my boy friend a huge teddy bear and a card but im alot more matture than i should be for my age
also i was dating an 18 year old when i was 12
but just get something cute. ;]
and if you need anything else im here to talk because ive made many mistakes and i would like to try to help you and other people not to make mistakes like i have
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2007): Get her some chocolates or a nice piece of jewellery, or send her a card made by you entirely, don't by your cards, do something from the heart. 3
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2007): get her a little kitty!!!!!!! lol...
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2007): dude, you shouldn't have a girlfriend at 12...
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2007): treat her special.....make a card yourself.......smack her butt....u know to make her feel appreciated
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reader, Lemonpixie +, writes (5 February 2007):
 a box of chocolates, or a cute teddy bear or stuffed animal... Roses may be a bit over the top with the relationship being so new... Something not too showy, just keep it simple and sweet
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reader, TasteofIndia + ♥, writes (5 February 2007):
 If I were 12, I'd like my boyfriend to come to school with a big bouquet of roses. A boy did that for me when I was 12 and it was the most special gift EVER.
If you're really looking to go all out, a piece of jewelry never hurts... but the relationship is so new, I think you can just stick with a 12 stem bouquet. They're a little pricey, just to warn you.
Good luck! You sound like a sweet boyfriend.
xxIndia
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reader, David Lewis  +, writes (5 February 2007):
 Favourite music CD, take her to the cinema, out for a meal, bowling, skating. There are many things you can do.
Only you will really know what she likes. Just surprise her, you may even surprise yourself. Just make a fuss of her and do what you can to make her feel special.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2007): It really depends on the person, despite their age to a point. What are her hobbies? What does she like in particular? What are some of her fantasies? Base whatever you want to give her or do with her on those things.
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (5 February 2007):
 I don't know many girls who don't like jewelry, so get her a necklace with a heart on it.
Or how about a nice card with a poem that you wrote for her.
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