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What can I do to get my bf to come here to live?

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Question - (30 December 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 January 2008)
A male United Kingdom, *p2000 writes:

Hi, im gay, soon to be 17...and am in like my fourth proper serious relationship. Ive been with him since July - and hes definately the best. Just so perfect, 21, sexy, i wont go into cos it might put some people off answerin but yeah he makes me so happy.

But theres a problem, i live in england n he lives in romania - yeh we met in london in july when he was on holiday and it went from there. we visit each other like once every 6-8 - which is hard to say the least. And we both decided it cant be that way anymore. He says thers nothing left for him as a gay bloke in Romania (he speaks perfect English n has a degree in finance) and he wants to come to my city to live n work. I really want this as well so we can have a proper, normal loving relationship. But it just seems impossible to get him here. I dont know what to do? Sometimes it makes me break down like thinking we'll never be together proper, but i just CAN'T end it with him, I'v sort of tried but i really dont think of it as an option anymore.

What do i do...how can i get him here?

Please help!

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A male reader, Neboraic United Kingdom +, writes (1 January 2008):

Is this an immigration problem. Romania's now part of the EU, that should help.

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A female reader, tytoalba United Kingdom +, writes (1 January 2008):

tytoalba agony auntwell, if it's love, there's no avoiding it. i'm sure it shouldn't be that hard for him to settle in somehow or find a way. And if he has a degree, that'll make easier to find work, if there are any other complication you should voice them or you can pm me.

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