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writes:I am 25 and I act mature sometimes but I need to on a regular basis or else I will never be able to have a stable relationship. What can I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, blackice10  +, writes (11 July 2010):
 well... It's ok to fool about and have a laugh sometimes and there's nothing wrong with being a bit immature, and you shouldn't change yourself just to get a relationship either, but you have to know when to be serious it's that simple.... Work out where you want to go in life and act accordingly x
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reader, Ritasanyal +, writes (10 July 2010):
I am not a big fan of Yoga or meditation. But I feel good when I step back a little and think constructively, criticize myself honestly I always find a way to keep myself cool.
Talk to yourself honestly, think of yourself truthfully and act accordingly
Only you can be your own judge
Relationship is complicated yet important nevertheless highly over-rated in a social context, the pressure to have a significant other, the urge to be loved by someone and give love in return can be overpowering.
I was once told by a 22 year old "I was put in this world to procreative". "And if I can't find that someone special, I better get the hell out of here".
There is an urgency here - and in that hurry we worry and tend to lose everything we have by being meaninglessly hurtful to oneself and our near and dear ones.
Be at peace with oneself - what ever may be and you will find a way to succeed.
God bless
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