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writes: I need help my gf wants a break for two weeks I've gave her one but I think she is going to break up with me I dont want to lose her and I want to phone her as well what should I do ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2006): is ur name rob
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reader, Helen1986  +, writes (12 September 2006):
 I think that you should give her the break that she needs hunny, I know it will be difficult but it may work out for the best. She may decide that she really likes you and wants to stay with you or she could decide that she wants to split for good. I think the best thing for you to do is not phone her and wait for her to phone you. Girls do not like blokes that chase us, we like blokes that play a little hard to get. Although we all want a nice bloke who will look after us and romance us deep down we attract to guys that treat us mean to keep us keen. Dont ask me why, but we do. I am not saying be nasty, Im just saying back off a bit and I guarantee she will be soon running to you. If she does not then I am afraid you will have to leave her alone because you cannot force people to feel things that they do not want to feel. good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2006): take my advice! i've been through it, i asked my boyfriend for a break to get my head around things, and in the end it broke us up because he didnt want to do want i wanted because he was more scared losing me when we went on a break that he didnt realise that not letting me have it broke us up! so take my adive dont stop your girlfriend from wanting this break because you could just end up as lonely as my ex now.
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reader, sugapuff  +, writes (11 September 2006):
 i agree with all these guys personally my boyfriend has asked me for some space ive given it!
much as i love the guy id rather he found out if he misses me!
cause if he doesnt id rather know some say familiarity breeds contempt!
who knows space might do you guys good!
i mean to me the guy im with is the one love him with all my heart but if he loves me and knows my worth hel miss me!
if he doesnt then things were not ment to be!
hard as thatl be to take.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2006): And I second LostAndAlone and Ponungalungb (what does that name mean btw?). I would let her go. Chaining them and over-reacting to their desires to break-free is a huge no no. Would u rather be with someone who is imprisoned and unhappy, or would u risk it and let that person go - possibly coming back happier, and also possibly leaving happier as well?
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (11 September 2006):
 If you love someone, set them free. If they come back, they are yours forever. If they don't, they were never yours to begin with. - I don't know who said it first, but I'll repeat it.
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reader, Lostandalone +, writes (11 September 2006):
 Give her what she asks for. You can't make someone be with you or want to be with you. By making a stance in this manner you are more likely to lose her for good than keep her with you. Give her the space she asks for. If you don't she will resent you for it. Its a bit selfish for you to want what you want and not give her what she wants don't you think???
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