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What are the signs if someone loves you?

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Question - (1 December 2006) 19 Answers - (Newest, 3 April 2011)
A female , anonymous writes:

Hello I am 12 and I really want to know how you know if somebody loves you. What are the signs?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2011):

honestly, i've asked this question myself a million times.

the only answer i've come up with is JUMP IN take the initiative and ask them out!

if they say yes, well then you've just found out they do! what's the worst possibility, A NO? which in my opinion is not so bad, it just means you weren't meant to be, that's all.

but before you do any of this ask your self this question, do YOU love them. only then will you have the confidence to have fortitude and take the initiative! hope i helped!

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A female reader, katieinlove United Kingdom +, writes (5 October 2008):

well i love sombody but i founding out if this is real love but im scared to ask him out or tell him i love him but wat we need to just say it if u don't u never know if like u aswell if he don't we can do much better

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2008):

"marquee if some one really loves you... you feel it automatically...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2007):

What are you doing at twelve years old asking that question? You should be interested in crushes maybe-but not love. Please try to concentrate on your school work and leave that stuff until much later on.

Debbie x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2007):

I think tht if u love som1 just discuss on how u feel and see if they feel the same way or not nd if not then just be friends I am in this situation at school at da mo and it is difficult but giv it ur best and try. :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2007):

there really aint no signs its not something that u should have to wonder about and sometimes ppl tell there self they dont think their someone loves them but have you ever asked them??? its eaiser to just ask them instead of keep falling deep for them and then one day for them to tell you they dont love u back thats what cause's heart break and its a lonely road after that....

How i kno i luv sumone

i go to sleep with him on my mind i wake up with him on my mind i call him just to see if he's ok or what he's doing and i constantly think bout him and if he is ok i feel safe around him and i dont feel like i have to be shy around him because he tells me its ok to be myself and without him my day is bad and when he's not here at school with me i just feel all alone and i miss him so much there are so many reasons for love but u will never no if u dont ask

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A female reader, xxluvink.himxx Australia +, writes (24 November 2007):

sign of love is eye contact. you just know that they like you because when their eyes look in to yours or you catch them when they look at you or something lol and they be show off next to you lmao :) well thats the truth they act different when they see you and stuff

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2007):

well, i think the most important sign of love is eye contact. you just know that they like you because when their eyes look in to yours its full of intense emotions and the urge to be one with you. they care of nothing else. their eyeys speek more more than their mouth.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007):

There are some signs of real love. But I only have 3 signs of that someone loves you, and 8 for if you love him/her.

Signs that someone love you:

1. You notice that when they look at you, and when you look at them, they look away.

2. They try to be near you, and you notice that they bump in to you every now and then.

3. They're really nervous around you, and it seems like they're nuts.

Signs that you love them:

1. You're shy and nervous around them.

2. You have butterflies in your stomach all the time.

3. You miss them only 5 minutes (or less) after they've left school/work.

4. You don't think much of others than them.

5. When your friends talk about him/her liking you, you tell them that you think he/her doesn't "like you at all".

6. You try to look at them as much as possible.

7. You talk waaay to much about them.

8. While you were reading this, you mostly/only thought of them ;)

PS: I'm 11, and I don't have much knowledge when it comes to real love, but I've noticed that I really love my boyfriend. I've been away from him for only 4 days, and I'm nearly going crazy!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2007):

ok theres this girl and she asked me out and I didn't say a word just kept running away and I had 3 crushes like no other I managed to overcome them except one and she was one of them that I forgot and when she asked me I FELL IN LOVE WITH HER ALL OVER AGAIN! it sucks! and i already love my friend and shes doesn't know and I can't decide who I love more and can't just admit I can't be with teither of them!

She thinks I'm just sume EMO kid and Punkish sorta guy and nothing more and my friend just thinks of us as friends! and I think she likes me? I think shes constantly staring at me and I gonna reveal to her that I love her on the last day of skool cuz I'm not going to skool with her next year, I'm moving! and I wanna know if anyone knows what to do in the situation if yes then e-mail me at [email address blocked]

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2007):

well i,m 11 and before you can say that you love someone you must check on there personality to see if you really do love them.I have this girl in my class that loves me alot and i mean alot.And she keeps on giving me pictures ofher and saying on them I LOVE YOU! and I am getting annoyed with it.so what I am trying to is there is a proper love and there is puppy love.

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (18 March 2007):

AskEve agony auntTo love a person, first and foremost you must KNOW them personally. Lots of teenagers say they "love" a celebrity or are "in love" with them but of course this can't be, they love the idea of who they are but if they've never met them then it's just a crush or infatuation.

Real love on the other hand is very different. If you truly love someone then you respect them for who they are, warts and all. You want to look after them and protect them, you look out for them and put them first. You feel happy and content in their company and enjoy being together. Above all you can be yourself when you're with them. You never try to be anything more or someone different because you don't need to. You don't have to impress them to win them over and you never have to play games to make them like you. There is trust and understanding on both sides and you feel safe and secure within yourself. You would never undermine them, they are not someone in whose company you feel threatened or small. They are someone with whom you can share your innermost thoughts and worries, a person with whom you should be able to share anything, they are your friend and your confidante and you can be honest with them at all times, you can tell them anything because they love you as you are.

He/she may be someone who is the direct opposite of you. On the surface you may seem like chalk and cheese. Whilst you may be loud and forceful they may be quiet and thoughtful. You may come from different backgrounds, different countries or be twenty years apart but this doesn't matter. There is an unspoken language between you, the spiritual connection between you both is so deep that you seem to be able to communicate without even speaking to each other. You are happy to lie in silence together. You feel sometimes that there is no need to talk because you feel that you know what they are thinking anyway. You feel so close to them that sometimes you think you could almost read their mind. You know when they are worried, in pain, or sad just by looking at them. It is as though there exists some kind of telepathy between you.

Real love stands the test of time, you laugh together, cry together and even have your differences but this doesn't matter, you love that person AND their failings. You come together in a crisis and work through things together and this just brings you closer. You take their feelings into consideration in all that you do. They are the most important person in your life!

Eve

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2007):

Well in my perspective I would say he would stand next to you in public .No matter where he is if he see's you his feet will always point in your direction. He wants to call you everyday, he blushes when you talk to him. He tries and holds your hands. His eyes will tend to get a little bigger than usual. Those are just some but overall try not to take things to seriously your just 12 =) have fun along the way your still expieriancing follow the beat of your heart and go with the flow!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2007):

I have been with this for for awhile. I know we are both in lov. She use to say that i lov you and miss you all the time. Now she says i lov you everytime i get off the phone. I am moving to her in a week. But she does not say the little sweet things as much anymore. She says she is really busy. Is it that she is just trying to keep her mind off of missing me till i get there.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2007):

You know when someone loves you because you see it every day. They want to spend time with you, they are concerned about your day, they do and say the little things that make you smile inside. They listen and remember things that you said last week. They call you just to talk. They ask questions about the things that you like and things that make you happy. They do all the little things that you never have to ask them to do, all without saying those three little words. Remember, someone can say they love you but don't, someone can never say they love you but show it everyday. Which would you rather have.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2006):

hi

im 14 years old and there is this boy at school and he looks at me and he tripped me up 2times. and he looks at my ass. he talks about me to his friends. me and him were taking on the phone for a long time. please i want to go out with him.!!!!!!!!!!!!

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A female reader, intouch +, writes (2 December 2006):

intouch agony aunti dont think anyone truley knows, but you can tell if they dont, its easier, they seem not to think of you or how you feel or if it will hurt you, they act selfisly doing what is best for them without thinking of how you are with it, even if it is as small a guesture as offering you a bit or a sip, if this is the case and they dont seem to care by their actions (as word are always cheap) then deep down i think you know the answer already, listen to yourself and your own instincts, you seem very sensible, emotions are always high at that age i remember it well, it always helps to think twice, if you want to know more i will try to help more, take care and goodluck

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A female reader, lonleyheart +, writes (1 December 2006):

lonleyheart agony auntwell basically i'm not getting much to go on here but i'm srt of guessing somone told u they love you and u ave no idea if u like them them same way would be nice if i could get a bit more information noe this problem but all i can say for now is talk 2 him descuiss how u feel about it

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A female reader, laura ann +, writes (1 December 2006):

laura ann agony auntI'm guessing someone has told you that they love you, and you are not sure to believe them. can you give more infomation?

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