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anonymous
writes:hii want to know what are the rule are when u dating a christian lady and how u keep rule unbroken i know i am chritian myself but sometime it hard for me to try not break rule like sleeping wth them etc
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reader, troubledtoomuch  + ♥, writes (1 September 2008):
 There are plenty of Christians who don't have any sex until marriage and there are plenty of Christians who have sex on the first date with someone and everything in between. You treat her as you would treat any woman. You treat her with respect and try to make her comfortable and listen to her wishes. You do what both of you feel is right or moral. There are plenty of Christions who treat sex casually and there are plenty of athiests who won't have sex until marriage. Being a Christian has nothing to do with how you treat her, as long as you treat her right.
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reader, *snowy* +, writes (31 August 2008):
hey jus red ur question...i gues if you're a christian u cud pray about it? but it seems that coz u c it as a rule that u havent really seen the value of sex n stuff in the context of how christiany n most religions actually portray it. the way i c it is a true christian believes in no sex b4 marriage because they look foward 2 spending sexy-time with they one wife/ husband n they see as a precious n wonderful expression of their love both physically n spiritually n they wud most probably invite their God who created sex 4 them 2 bless them in their intimate time 2geva. there's no rule as such mor a belief and view point they will stand by. hope that helps! =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2008): Well, as others have stated here, respect is key.
Respect to her religion, and also to ger body.
God intended sex for MARRIAGE, so, if she's a devout woman to her religion, she may feel pressure for sex as a sign that you don't care for her, so I'd seriously avoid that if you want to keep her around.
Try to focus on her virtues and for the person she is, noone likes being disrespected when it comes to ones beliefs and choices in life.
So by now you know that sex is out of the picture while dating this christian lady, so now is only up to YOU to decide whether or not you can have a relationship with someone you know will probably not be available for sex while dating.
Good luck and blessings for you!
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reader, debrasue64 +, writes (31 August 2008):
First treat her with respect and be willing to accept limits she might set. As to the sleeping with her as Christians we know we shouldn't, but that decision will have to be up to you. In any case let her be the first to make that suggestion when and if she wants to (I wouldn't ask what's your opinion of sex before marriage!) Best wishes
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