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reader, Dipsydoodlenoodle  + ♥, writes (19 May 2008):
The rules of cheating are do not do it.Cheating is anything that you would not do in front of your partner, or anything that if he did it then you would not like it. x
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reader, ricbax +, writes (18 May 2008):
You have to set your own rules, the point is that both partners have to agree to them and stick to them. Someone who is into swinging doesn't mind if their partner has sex with someone else, so long as it is within agreed boundaries and at agreed venues where both partners are present. Someone who is clingy and possessive probably doesn't want their partner even eyeing up another person, using pornography, or having friends of the opposite sex. Those are two extremes but it really depends on the individual.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (17 May 2008):
 One more silly reason I read in here,
5) Masturbating to porn or thinking of other sexy images of
other girls and not to the g/f 's picture or thought of her is cheating..LOL!
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (17 May 2008):
I learned from Dear Cupid site that cheating is ;-
1) looking at porn or possession on phone or pc.
2)Flirting online or in real life.
3)Texting or SMS and talking on the phone to another person of the opposite sex.
4)Ogling at girls
Lucky , I don't live in that kind of world.
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reader, all i need  +, writes (16 May 2008):
first of all,
if you are asking this question because you are concidering cheating (on any level no matter what it may be) then heres my advise. DONT. if you want to be with, touch with, kiss with, hold hands with, exc. with someone besides your mate, then you really sont need to be with your mate anymore. you need to break it off with them, cheating isnt worth it, TRUST ME!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2008): Rules of cheating
1 Don't get caught
2 Lie if caught
3 Blame other person for driving you to it
4 Get feet back under table
5 Pheeew
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reader, Hope_123 + ♥, writes (16 May 2008):
 I think that I would consider cheating as getting that bit too close to someone else whilst in a relationship with someone - And knowing that you shouldn't and knowing that your boyfriend/girlfriend/(etc) would be upset if they found out.
It doesn't have to be sex in my opinion. It can be anything that you should only be doing with your partner.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2008): Rules? Cheating is breaking the rules.
Some people think it's cheating if its full sex, others that flirting is cheating. It depends on the person. You are the only person who knows what effect another person's actions have on you.
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reader, purple1234  + ♥, writes (16 May 2008):
 kssing someone else romantically when u are already seeing someone in a monogamous r/ship, dating or having sex with someone else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2008): I'd consider cheating as doing anything you wouldn't do with just a friend, whilst you are in a relationship. For example, kissing, sex etc.
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reader, DiovanLestat +, writes (16 May 2008):
 Having sexual intercourse with someone whilst you've made a commitment to somebody else to be faithfull. (cheating)
Having sexual intercourse with someone with the permission of your husband or wife. (open marriage)
Holding hands with somebody whilst your committed to someone else (friendship)
Kissing somebody whilst your married to somebody else (family/motherhood).
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