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female
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30-35,
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writes:what are the reasons a fairly confident guy would become quiet around a shy girl? I met this guy a bit ago while out with friends and he was very outgoing, maintained eye contact, etc. But when I saw him the other day, while I was out with the same friends, he seemed different; didn't look at me much while either of us were talking, got completely quiet at times, etc. The girls I was with know him well, and he's never really at a loss for words... and they know nothing was going on to distract him (personal issues or the like). He acted normal around everyone else. I'm a people pleaser, and I can't help but think I put him off in some way... though I'm not sure how that would happen, I'm quite quiet around new people until I get to know them better. BUT, he did flirt with me a little.So I'm curious if there are any fairly specific reasons why a guy can do a 180 from confident and almost cocky around others, to silent around a single girl... ?!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (22 March 2012):
 Could be that he likes you, or not.
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reader, curious1987  +, writes (22 March 2012):
 it sounds to me that he really likes you. the question is., do you like him? if you do, maybe you could get ur friends to introduce u probably. but fromwhat you said, the way he acting, is how i get when i like a guy. i go quiet, but only round him, tend to ignore him, then fine over txts to him after. so if you like him,ask him out, what have you got to lose?
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