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What are the odds of this girl getting pregnant?

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Question - (10 December 2017) 11 Answers - (Newest, 30 January 2018)
A male United States, anonymous writes:

Hello. I went out on a date with a young 26 year old lady that I met online, and things went pretty well. Anyways afterwards she invited me to her room and well we started making out and one thing lead to another and we ended up undressing and continued to make out and which eventually led her hand to my penis and my hand to her vagina. Eventually she climbed on top of me and stuck my penis inside of her. After a few strokes I had to end it as I didn't have a condom on. I asked if she had any and she didn't.

Basically, I should have probably left it at that but decided to not ruin the entire night. So basically we just ended up doing oral and manually masterbation because well I didn't want to really wish risking getting someone I barely met pregnant. Of course, I guess there's still the std risk but for some reason I wasn't really thinking about that but rather the risk of getting her pregnant.

Anyways, she finished me and I ejaculated and she caught some of the cum in her free hand which she proceeded to rub on her vaginal area. Does anyone know the exact odds of her actually getting pregnant by doing this if she pushed some inside as well?

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A female reader, Andie's Thoughts United Kingdom +, writes (30 January 2018):

Andie's Thoughts agony auntDo the test, get STD tested and PLEASE don't be so reckless again. There are plenty of unplanned and unwanted babies in the world, we don't need more and you shouldn't risk having babies with strangers.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (30 January 2018):

aunt honesty agony auntYeah you will need a paternity test and you will also need to get yourself checked out at a STI clinic.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2018):

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Update: We talked last week and she came out and let me know that she is pregnant. I'm actually having dinner with her tonight to discuss the situation with her and see where it's going from there. Of course, I will definitely request a paternity test and go from there when that time happens.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2018):

The truth is yes she could get pregnant. And second she can get pregnant with pre-come. So good luck

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (18 December 2017):

aunt honesty agony auntIt is clear this woman wants a baby when she is acting like she is, she has no interest in you or getting to know you. My guess would be that she tries to hook up with as many guys as possible from the internet so she can try and get pregnant. I think the best thing you can do is learn from this and book yourself in to an STI clinic to make sure everything is okay. The odds off you catching an infection or disease is much higher.

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom +, writes (12 December 2017):

N91 agony auntI'd run a mile from this one.

Openly telling you she wants to get pregnant after rubbing your semen on her genitals? Avoid this one my friend, who knows what other tricks she has up her sleeves to get knocked up.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2017):

What are the odds of you getting a life threatening STD? Always use a condom.

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A female reader, Andie's Thoughts United Kingdom +, writes (12 December 2017):

Andie's Thoughts agony auntOP, don't be an idiot. Meeting with someone who WANTS to get pregnant by a STRANGER is a terrible idea. She will SABOTAGE the condoms to get pregnant and you won't know until she tells you she's pregnant with your baby - possibly asking for child support, even if she insists she won't.

Aside from that, she doesn't sound responsible enough to have a baby yet - as a stranger (unless through official donor banks) is a horrible choice for the father of a baby. No doubt she'll succeed without you, but she's risking STDs too, by having unprotected sex. She may even lie about being on the pill, so irresponsible men will agree to not using a condom.

Don't make a decision you'll regret. Steer clear of her.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2017):

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Anyways, I had a chance to talk to her again. I did ask her about it and she came out and said that she wants to get pregnant. She said she was disappointed that we stopped having sex and would actually want to meet up again. I told her only if we had condoms with us. But I'm not sure if in should. Probably shouldn't but other than her trying to get pregnant, I had a good time.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2017):

From your desciption one assumes that this lady is quite experienced and one of those lusty types. But why did she rub your semen to her vagina? Was that a kink she enjoys doing or is she trying to trap you with a pregnancy? But in general the chance of her getting pregnant is slim but still possible. You just have to wait and see or make her to take a pregnancy test.

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A female reader, Andie's Thoughts United Kingdom +, writes (10 December 2017):

Andie's Thoughts agony auntThere aren't any exact odds. The main problem is pre-ejaculation, which you DID put inside her. There's a fair chance that she could get pregnant from that.

Seriously, OP - this is reckless behaviour. Don't allow yourself to get caught up in it if you don't have protection.

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