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writes:hey hey...i would like to ask....theres this guy that likes me and i like him...we havent met but have only spoken over mxit...but dont worry he's not one of those dodgy poeple.. he's one of my freinds freinds...the other day we were just talking and suddenley it turned out that we are what each other is looking for and i found out that he has liked me a long time but hasnt said andything because of the distance... like i would always tell him my guy problems, he'd help but he admitted that he did get jelouse and told me that he always thought those guys were the luckiest things on earth he says we can meet, and we always talk like you know how couples are ie i miss you and he was like i know if i meet you im going to miss ou terribly and you know things like that... now im 16 and hes 20..( i know the hole thing abou age diff... iv already asked o that) so he works all week and we talk a little bit once he's finished work it all depends.. he's sometimes on mxit and sometimes not... but the thing is that i dont know like if i were to meet him if we were to become more than freinds how do i know like were am i standing with him now? and also because we dont sms normally or even phone does he actually really like me? i mean we only speak on mxit when we can... but i dont want to phne or sms him normally first for i dont wanna run after him and also what if he likes me but not that much cause we havent met yet and so wont sms me and stuff.... oly on mxit i realy like him and he makes it out that he feels the same way... but does he?? and what am i to him at the moment?? just a crush??
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reader, nologo  +, writes (3 April 2007):
 At the moment you are both just friends.
It doesn't sound to me like he loves you.
Here is not enough emotional involvement to make it work.
You wrote: "if i were to meet him if we were to become more than freinds".
In that case my answer would be this relationship must be tested by time.
But I really don't believe that you want it that much.
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