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writes:My boyfriend gave me oral the other day in the back seat of my car. He had tried a few weeks before but didnt like it so he didnt do it til the other night. After that he decided he really REALLY liked doing it. The next day he did it again and it was AMAZING! I kept telling him that, and i kept saying "wow" (lol). Was it bad to tell him he did so good? Or do guys like hearing things like that? I tell him things like that all the time, like how hard he is and stuff...is that bad? Is it going to get old? Does he like hearing things like that? I know i do but what about a guy?... Reply to this Question
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reader, faith scott boreanaz  +, writes (17 November 2007):
 If your telling him what you love and that his making you feel so good then he's gonna learn what you like and dont like and improve giving you a bit more pleasure each time. It'll make him feel good too and he'll enjoy it as well as you. everyone loves compliments. keep it up. faith.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (15 November 2007):
 Men (and women) love feedback! Let him know that he's blowing your mind! He'll know that he's doing a good job and it'll make him feel good about his skills in the bedroom. Nothing wrong with flattery (especially if it's sincere).
Everyone loves compliments. Keep it up, sister!
xxIndia
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reader, whiteshadow +, writes (15 November 2007):
 by telling him and giving him compliments genuinly you are going to give him a huge confidence boost wich would make him want to do it more!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007): I know that I would like hearing things like that- that I was doing things right.
It helps guys to know which bits to touch, as they have no idea how different parts of us feel. Keep telling him when he's doing things right, and then after a while when he knows the drill you won't have to so much, but now and again remind him.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (15 November 2007):
 Everyone loves compliments, and you letting your boyfriend know just how much you like him doing things like tht will just boost his confindence even more.
So i personally would say there is absolutely nothing wrong with it at all.
Take care.xx.
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