We've had sex and he gave me a key to his apartment, but I'm not sure where our relationship stands!

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey everyone, I'm nineteen dating a thirty-four year old guy. We started seeing each other thinking that we would just hang out and be good friends but, things changed. He drove six hours to come "rescue" me from a bad situation once and after that, we got close. I lost my virginity to him. Then, we started seeing each other at least 4times a week for about 12hrs each time. He left on a trip and comes back to see me right after leaving the airport, he hugs me for ages and tells me how he missed me. I have the key to his apt. He cooks for me at times...hes always there to help...but, I dont know if he's even my bf. Its never been said. He says he cares for me and after we made love the other day, he said, "I want to get you pregnant." I laughed but he had a serious look on his face. We talked about taking a trip to his home country together.its been 6months. I feel like I love him, I don't know if he loves me. I'm not used to men/relationships, how long might it take to hear him admit feelings if he has them?

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