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writes: So i was dating my girlfriend for only one month, when she tells me that she is pregnant. The first thing i asked her was she one hundred percent that the baby was mine. She said yes, with out a doubt it was mine. The only thing i know to do is to step and be there for her and my baby, right? So i accept the fact and even tell my parents and coworkers. So now that one month has gone perfect. Our relationship was great, then the day before we leave to go out of town to meet my parents she tells me that she had slept with one other right before we started dating. Now what do i do???? Do i have to wait 9 months before i know if im going to be a dad? Not to mention my broken relationship with a person i thought i knew.
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (15 September 2006):
 Man thats pretty bad. I know there is a DNA test you can have done before the birth but its very expensive. That is if you NEED to know now. If I were in your shoes, I would be there for her and continue to support her, because breaking up with her now could somehow send her on an emotional roller coaster that could be damaging to the fetus. After the baby is born before you sign the birh certificate get a DNA test just to be sure. She should understand your concern and to hell what other people say because its your life and you need to know for sure. Good Luck.
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reader, claire_x100 +, writes (15 September 2006):
 Aww im sorry to hear, but you took the right approach of being there for her. She should have mentioned earlier about the other person. All i can say if you really love her and want to make it work carry on, you might feel like you've been lied to but theres alot of blokes who take on responsiblity of other children that arnt theres. You have to think do you wnat to be with her even if the baby isnt yours or break up with her then realise 9 months later it is. Its going to be tough but jus follow your heart and head. Good Luck.
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reader, damainevent +, writes (15 September 2006):
 Man, i dunno. That seriously sucks. I think you can get tests done to tell exactly what day the baby was conceived but you may have to wait a few more weeks or so. If it were me though I'd have to find out if the baby is mine before I did anything else. I mean dude she should've told you about the other guy when you asked her if she was 100% sure it was yours. But see if you can get a test done to see exactly when the baby was conceived and that should help you determine if in fact the baby is yours. Good luck man...I hope it all works out.
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