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writes: Remind me to take you guys' advice next time. I got myself into another pickle. See, my ex was saying how stupid it was for him to break up with me, and that he was regretting it. Well he failed to mention that he was already going out with another girl. So I asked you guys what to do (before I knew about the other girl) and you said to just tell him it was nice while it lasted and leave it at that. Well me being me couldnt leave it at that. I had to ask him if he would want to get back together with me, like if he regretted it enough to try again. STUPID! So he didnt reply for like a month. I was starting to wonder, ya know? So then I started hearing all over the place about him and this new girl. Well I sorta know that it was this girl's fault that we broke up. So I obviously didn't like her too much to begin with, but then once I started hearing about them going out, it made me even more mad, at her AND at him. And she was always the one to make him think that I was being mean to her, because they were really good friends so she got away with it. the (excuse my french) evil little bitch. So now Im really mad and everything, so I tell him not to bother replying to my email, because I already knew the answer. Well guess what?! The next day, he answers and he is like "no Im sorry..." and that is pretty much it. So I get like really pissed off, and I email him and I tried to be as nice as I could, and now I wont be talking to him for a while, because I told him I would still like us to be friends, but I just couldnt talk to him right now. So do you think I should try to save our friendship? because I will be going to school with him for a lot longer, and our families go to the same church, and me and him both really like that church, so I dont think anybody will be leaving it soon. And I have known him for 9 years already, and he used to be my best friend. I told myself that I wouldnt let our friendship go just because it didnt work out between us, but then all this post-relationship drama hit me, and Im not even sure if its worth it. What do you think? thanks in advance, and Ill try to listen this time.
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reader, rphillips +, writes (16 May 2005):
The question is WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO BE FRIENDS WITH A CREEP?
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