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We've been dating for a month and she now admits she was "waiting for something to go wrong"...

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Question - (26 May 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 May 2005)
A , anonymous writes:

I have a question, and maybe you guys can help me out.

I've been together with this great girl for a month now. Out of the 31 days, we saw each other on probably 20 occassions, and those where we didn't we talked a lot on the phone.

For the past three days she's been acting strangely, as if looking for trouble. Yesterday she confirmed to me that yes, she wanted to something to go wrong, but didn't know why.

She confirmed though that she was really really happy with me, but again she didn't know why she wanted something to go wrong.

Would really appreciate your thoughts!

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A reader, Wildberries +, writes (28 May 2005):

She has probably had a past relationships start going wrong at about this stage and is waiting for the other shoe to drop. Or she is thinking it is too serious too fast and looking for a way to back up two steps, without saying so. Talk to her and see where you are at. If it is working for the both of you, it is probably worth the effort.

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A reader, alison +, writes (27 May 2005):

Maybe she has had bad experiences in past relationships so she thinks the same will happewn again with you, so she just wants to get it over with.

Talk to her and tell her how much you like her and maybe she won't feel the same way

Hope this helps and good luck

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